The virtual machine is (was?) the whole point. You can run the same binaries on your dev box or your server, whatever flavour of server that happens to be.

Startup times are not an issue on servers as processes are typically long-lived anyway. It is a bit of an issue on serverless (lambda etc.) but that’s a relatively new thing. High memory usage is generally poor tuning - if you give the JVM 1gb it will use it and avoid GC until it needs to. Sometimes it’s poor coding too, I’ve seen web APIs accepting files as base64 encoded json strings which is horrific server side.