So yeah, rich guy writes a blog article saying essentially "people should just do what I did" and water is wet.
So yeah, rich guy writes a blog article saying essentially "people should just do what I did" and water is wet.
It makes people uncomfortable to think that success is mostly a matter of luck. I am extremely lucky to be where I am in my career, and I greatly respect people who can admit this instead of rambling about “hustle.”
It helps a lot to have an affluent background when you start a tech company because, like a lot of other risky endeavors, even though the potential rewards are enormous it's a lot less initial earnings than just joining a company as an employee. And you worry whether if your company doesn't take off and get its next round of funding in a few months if it'll be harder to get that first job. And you may be poorer than you were pre-startup.
Not to mention that poorer kids might not ever see starting a tech startup as an option. Both because of the biases in which founders get funding and because they may culturally never have the option floated to them.
There is a ton of VC money in Sillicon Valley again.
I constantly hear this sentiment and don't think it makes people uncomfortable at all. If anything it is the opposite, people cling to this idea to absolve themselves of responsibility for their own situation.
What makes people far more uncomfortable is the nagging feeling that success isn't mostly a matter of luck. Success is a choice in life that requires restraint, sacrifice, an appetite for risk, and resilience.
But if you follow some basic rules (finish high school, don't have kids before marriage, don't do drugs or smoke, minimise alcohol, eat healthy and exercise, don't buy things to impress others), you have a very good chance of being successful in life. Obviously we can't all be billionaires or whatever, but you can definitely live a fairly comfortable and modest life.
Yes, I know kids who did drugs (partied as they say) and have some success in life. I also knew some kids who did drugs and barely graduated or dropped out and did poorly or are just hanging on and a handful who didn’t make it out of young adulthood due to those choices.
What we need are statistics to tell us what is more likely, not our particular anecdotes.
That being said, only drugs I ever did were weed, acid, shrooms, MDMA, and trying the odd pharmaceutical. Never any opoids of any sort, never meth etc.
And in terms of broad advice, I think not doing drugs is still a fairly consistent rule for good outcomes.
At some point those of us who have grown up in this economy stopped believing in fairy tales and bootstraps. There were a million points from my upbringing to now that could have diverted me from the middle class, so I’m not looking down on my underemployed peers as inferior beings for their struggles.
This is another one of those points that sounds superficially plausible on the surface but makes little sense once you think it through. The circumstances of my birth weren't a matter of luck. My (married) parents decided to have 4 children of which I was one. Before doing this they both finished high school, and stayed away from drugs. They also tried to live healthily etc (but certainly weren't monks). They weren't going to have sex and then a child might pop into existence in Uganda. The only way the whole "your birth was luck" thing makes any sense is if you perceive yourself to be an atomised individual with no deeper ties to the family you came from or the choices that were made by your ancestors who preceded you.
Like I said, people are EXTREMELY comfortable with the handwaving of "it's all luck anyway". They won't even take responsibility for themselves and their own lives, so asking them to also feel responsibility to their children/grandchildren/descendants is even more of a foreign concept.
As for "I'm not looking down on my underemployed peers as inferior beings for their struggles" those are your words, not mine. I certainly don't look down on my struggling friends/family either, but I am also not going to withhold judging them based on the actions they take. Because very often they also KNOW they shouldn't be doing what they are doing, but choose to do it anyway.
Weakness corrupts as much as power, and it is wise not to forget that.
To pretend as if this is not pure chance (luck) is bonkers.
Or are you saying it was just luck my mom got pregnant then? She just fell asleep one night, the stork visited, and then she woke up pregnant?
I think you don't understand how sex or genetics work, I am 50% my mother's dna and 50% my father's. It's not like they were going to have sex and then I would be born with the genetic code of two entirely different people.
My parents chose to have a kid, where else would I be born except in the country where my mother chose to live? There was 0 luck involved, I wasn't going to randomly pop into existence in Mongolia when my parents decided to have a kid while both living in Australia.
If you apply your reasoning to any other area in life you can see how silly it is. If you put in a lot of work/effort into building a car, is the existence of the car the product of "luck"? After all it had no more choice in where it was created than a person.
That is a false analogy. We're talking about you being born, not you putting effort into building a car.
Why are you switching the argument around to where your parents decided to settle? The whole point is about where you are born, not the area your parents decide to give birth in.
You seem to be getting hung up on the fact that when two people decide to create a car they are creating an inanimate object (which they own in totality) and when they create a child they create a person with human rights and that will develop into it's own autonomous individual.
But this difference has absolutely 0 relevance to the question of whether or not the circumstances of your birth are the result of luck. Either they both are (which I think you can see is silly) or neither are (which is true but seems to be an idea you are resistant to for some reason).
Like I said at the start, this whole "the circumstances of your birth are luck" is a truism (in the philosophical sense) without any real thought put into whether or not it makes any sense. It could be luck in the deterministic sense of "the entire universe is pre-ordained" but if you believe in free will for the individual at all in any area, then the circumstances of one's birth are not luck.
They are not luck for your parents but you are not your parents.
One of the problems here is that there is one position that everything is either the result of my decisions (ie under my control) or it is luck (ie it is not under my control) and another that defines luck much more narrowly.
Anything that happens to you as a result of someone else's decision is luck for you, even though it's a controlled decision for them. And you had no control over your conception because you didn't exist at the time.
Or, to put this in the simplest possible terms: "other people's free will is your luck".
none of these correlate at all with the successful people I know.
The discontent in millenials nowadays is exactly because they are peddled that fairy-tale myth.
"Get a degree and get a job, you can will be able to afford a house and a family with children."
It might have worked for the older generation but it sure as heck doesn't work now. Why do you think "hustle" culture is so pushed right now? Our parents didn't need to "hustle" to afford these basic things.
This is still true, you just might have to move to a different place from where you grew up to get it. You know, like enormous amounts of our parents/grandparents/ancestors did (why did people come to the USA in the first place? Lack of access to housing where they were from ;p )
I think it's even better. Rich guy that became reach by funding tech startups says: "wanna become a billionaire? The easiest way nowadays is funding a tech company! I can help!"
I’m also annoyed when people make the argument that goes: “person X became rich from A he didn’t need to do B”. Maslows hierarchy holds true for all of us. Once he got wealth he desired influence (and power).
They're swimming in money, they have a bunch of investors in their phone contacts, and they know all the ins and outs from the last time they put a startup through its life cycle. How could they not be in better shape than some kid slurping ramen in his first YC cohort?
This does leave two big wildcards: the idea (specifically its product-market fit) and pure dumb luck. From what you wrote, I'm guessing that you think this isn't realized by the "cult of YC" as well as it should be, whereas I guess differently, but it doesn't matter that much. We all recognize that it's there, and without those two ingredients you can't succeed.
As an aside, I've seen two different kinds of 'luck' come up in these kinds of conversations: the sort I'm referring to above, and the sundry genetic and social inheritances to which a person is heir.
They're both valid uses of the word, I think the first is more obviously lucky than the latter. It is luck of a sort that someone is 2 meters tall, but I bet their parents were also taller than average, so saying that it's lucky that they were able to be a pro at basketball is going to confuse some people. There was no "them" before the peculiar genetic combination which conceived them, and after that, we're talking about some favorable circumstances (adequate time, a court, no crippling car accidents or stray bullets) and a great deal of hard work.
Similarly, you can call it luck that Jeff Bezos was able to borrow a quarter million from his family, or that Elon Musk apparently can sleep for four hours and work for twenty, constantly, for decades (a genetic quirk no less special and rare than being two meters tall): but you can call it fate as well.
If I could put my difference in opinion in my own words, it would be that I believe many people play the startup game with the right "intrinsic" qualities - hard work, brilliance, etc - many more than the number who exit with a billion dollars. Hence, "lottery". Of course, some of that luck can carry forward in terms of experience, networking... That's not really my point either.
If Paul Graham wants to join our startup, I wouldn't have to disavow my beliefs to welcome him with open arms. That would obviously be to our great benefit. The leadership team would tout his resume, and look forward to his insightful contributions. I, on the other hand, believe that his primary contribution would be to generate a bunch of "Paul Graham Joins X Startup" headlines, increasing our value in the eyes of VC.
The religion is this: you can hire Developer X or Developer Y. "X" was an early employee at a successful startup, where "Y" seems much more technically proficient. I think many startups choose "X" and don't even consider whether they're doing that for status within the startup world (which is what I believe), or because they genuinely believe that having a successful startup under their belt means - even in the face of evidence to the contrary - that the company is more likely to achieve a billion-dollar valuation with "X" than with "Y". You could argue for either justification, honestly, but it's the failure to see a distinction that strikes me as religious.
And also, Paul Graham's ability to found another successful company aside, the clinging to his every word is /definitely/ religious to me.
This is the problem though. There really isn't any clear evidence one way or the other in your example. Predicting how someone will perform in a particular context is incredibly difficult (see the frequent disagreements on HN surrounding the hiring process). More technical proficiency might or might not translate to better overall performance in your particular case.
Meanwhile, the other candidate has already been in what was presumably a substantially similar situation. Given that the previous startup succeeded, I'd assign good odds (but no guarantee, of course!) of that candidate having performed well (all else being equal, a startup with dead weight seems statistically unlikely to succeed).
> You could argue for either justification, honestly, but it's the failure to see a distinction that strikes me as religious.
It might not be that someone else is failing to see a distinction (social status vs technical proficiency vs something else), but rather that they disagree with your estimates of how much various factors will contribute to the likelihood of success for a candidate in the first place. In other words, I think someone might reasonably disagree with you that there's a meaningful distinction to be made here. Such a view would of course be expected to lend their actions the appearance of religious dogma from your perspective.
The second part seems to reveal a difference in opinion unlikely to be resolved easily in this forum. Food for thought, though - thank you!
Hmmmm, I think it's obviously lucky. Luck in this context means everything in life that is not under your control (most things are part luck part control, of course). Since you did not exist when you were conceived, your genetic inheritance is obviously not under your control at all.
It's exactly equivalent to saying that someone with a genetic disorder is unlucky, which I think is a much more accepted valuation.
Certainly, the hard work is absolutely a fair point - within the universe of people who are over two meters tall with high hand-eye coordination (as someone 1.98m tall with terrible hand-eye coordination, I'm very conscious of how that affects sporting ability) those who work hard at sport are more likely to be successful professionals than those that don't.
There is a more subtle question about whether we should count the mental disposition to work hard, one that is likely in large part from genetic and social inheritance, as being luck. Some people are much better at it than others, and it does not seem to be the case that those who aren't can become much harder working purely through an effort of will (somewhat, by will and regular practice and it becoming habit? sure. Reaching the level of those who are doing so anyway? No). So is that disposition a matter of luck? If it is, what does that mean? What do we do differently as a result? Do we say that it doesn't matter how hard people work, they should be rewarded the same? Obviously not. So what does that actually mean?
Are you actually seriously complaining about the argument that you'd be better off starting a tech company than a non-tech company? I didn't realize that was even up for debate. Sure, that's how PG made his money, but that doesn't make his argument any less accurate. Just because there's a concept of a success bias, it doesn't automatically apply to every argument.