It is worth noting that when Apple was initially developing this feature, around the time of Mac OS 10.5 (Leopard), they had fractional scaling. I thought it was awesome. I can only assume that some artists felt it was not awesome. (I'm going to stop googling for this now, but I think 'Resolution Independence" is a key phrase that will help in finding it if you are interested).
As for HiDPI mode, I know I've done it in the past for external displays, but I haven't been able to get it to work with my 1080p displays using Big Sur. I think this might've been the most useful link I've come across: https://www.reddit.com/r/hackintosh/comments/jh6pjd/hidpi_on... . If you do manage to get it to work, a toolbar app like ResolutionTab or EasyRes is then a big help for changing between modes.