"Please don't reply to all@company.com it goes to everyone"
Each person in the mail list is convinced they need to send a reply to that mail informing everyone that the others should not reply to this email address, otherwise how would everyone know they're not supposed to reply to that email.
Each person who would send a reply-all does it in response to SOME message. If it happens to be your BCC, their message doesn't perpetuate the storm.
The BCCs would act as a kind of neutron absorber to dampen runaway reactions. Or like a trap-neuter-release program for cats.
When you receive mail that you've been BCC'd on, it does attempt to figure out what address was used to get it to you, and displays that as a BCC (useful if it came to you via a mailing list that was BCC'd), so perhaps you're confusing that for showing the addresses of everyone to everyone, which isn't the case.
My favourite is when people reply-all with “please remove me from this list”
of course
Just saying in case anyone wasn't already aware.
I wonder how many unfinished messages I’ll send before my muscle memory remembers I’ve switched?
Has been very useful so far.