And yet he's presumably able to pull these girls, in a wild extroverted setting like a club, where a girl is rarely alone, and competition is fierce.
So he can't swim, but when he needs to get to the other side of the lake, he beats Michael Phelps.
No, you got it wrong. Noone said anything about my success rate, which is laughable. I am just saying I am introverted, and shy but I do talk to women. Yes, competition is there, but what should I do instead? Cry about my inability to be a social butterfly.
First off, I want to say I'm on your side. I've got nothing but good things to say about you getting out there and making an effort.
So ultimately this is just a semantic argument. I still think you've overcome "shy" if you can approach in a club. Inverted, sure, but not shy. Regardless, semantic arguments really are the worst kind, so I'm letting this one go.
Keep fighting the good fight.
You could be right, maybe I am "overcoming" my shyness.