It's not a war, but a frozen conflict. Even Wikipedia says that:
Saying that what Ukraine has is a "frozen conflict" and not a war zone is like a real estate agent calling a crappy house a "renovator's dream."
"A very small area near the Russian border" is literally moving the goalposts. Until Russia stepped in and redrew the border of Ukraine, the front lines were a hundred miles from the border.
If you're so sure its so dangerous there, maybe you can pull up statistics about number/rate of shooting deaths there compared to the US?
Donbass in Ukraine is dangerous and a no go war zone. Downtown Kiev/Lviv are peaceful and have an excellent quality of life with amazing restaurants and nightlife.
You can’t average big countries.