I always felt like resistive screens were more responsive than capacitive screens.
Case in point: My 3DS resistive screen and Palm Centro responded instantly. I think their downside was the necessary use of the stylus (because of the additional precision, their UIs required you to pull out the stylus before you could do anything effective).
What the Apple iPod Touch / iPhone did, was allow you to touch without using a stylus.
Anyway, I read this post as if its a mirror-image of my reality. The one thing I remember about Apple's capacitive push was that it felt slower than what I was used to. Honest.
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With that being said: I've played fighting games vs opponents who can 1-frame link and counter-throws within 7-frames (115 milliseconds). I'm well aware of the human-brain's capability to process data far faster than most people realize.
Musicians, Video Game players, Athletes... I expect most of them to have reaction speeds well above average: below the 200ms typical human. Even then, "average" humans have far better reaction speeds and ability to perceive things that happen in factions-of-a-second (at least, once you make them aware of those things).
UI-speed is absolutely a great feature. I just disagree that Apple's iPod Touch or iPhone was a good representation of that.