dnautics isn't wrong. Even the issues you bring up are addressed by Erlang/OTP. Distributed Erlang with 10K nodes, hot code reload, etc.
it works okay in small clusters on reliable low latency networks but it's not a replacement for an actual network mesh
there have been attempts to fix it but none have really found adoption. i think this is the most notable: https://lasp-lang.readme.io/docs