Thanks! And solid point.

But to be clear, there was certainly a wide spectrum of relationships between 22 and 43. For better or for worse.

If I had to pick an age to tell my younger self to hold out for, it would probably be the early to mid 30s. That seems to be when I, and other guys I know, stopped being idiots and started taking care of ourselves. And in the process gained some self esteem and confidence.