Icebergs in 3D will generally have different mass distributions than the corresponding 2D projections that we are drawing here. For example, there will generally be higher "2D mass density" in the center.
Consequently, it is possible that the scientists "drawing icebergs wrong" are actually right and it just looks/"behaves" wrong in 2D. And even if they're doing it wrong, it's also possible to learn the wrong lessons regarding floating stability from this 2D playground.