I am trying very hard to use Clubhouse, but unfortunately I am having the same experience.
I have followed people who I find interesting and groups that align to my interests - but the loudest figurative voices are still the ones who pop my notifications most often. Frustrating, but I’m going to keep at it through February at least.
I’ve also had to rebrand it in my mind, it’s not social media. It’s more like community talkback radio and has found a niche in my listening habits where I’ve given up a few hours a week in podcasts to listen in on some wacky chats.