Oracle's SQL Developer is the worst IDE for databases I ever seen. Oracle DB doesn't support "TOP N" or "LIMIT N" notations and many other useful features...
I like SQL Server more than Oracle and Microsoft provides 2 good IDEs for it (SQL Management Studio and Azure Data Studio). But it has some bad limitations - you can't define ON ... CASCADE on more than one path. You also can't create CTEs with inserts/updates.
PostgreSQL doesn't have a good IDE out of the box. I heard that Azure Data Studio now support it, but didn't try it yet, because I already paid for a commercial IDE that supports PostgreSQL. PostgreSQL also doesn't have a good high availability tooling, but all major cloud providers do this for you. Considering that you get it for free, it is a much better choice than Oracle or SQL Server.