Appetite is not a choice though and it's not easy to just ignore and do the right thing. It's not a thing you can change just like that.
But you could change your food and eat tons of it. I am a pretty slim person and i eat a lot compared to my friends. I also don't do much sport and as a developer is sit a huge part of the day. So for me it comes down to WHAT i eat and it's serving me pretty well. You don't need to fight your appetite, you can serve it and still loose weight.
I've lost over 150lbs and kept most of it off for the better part of a decade, so I will tell you from experience that you are full of shit.
Congratulations on your weight loss, does your experience compare to what I've described?