Honestly i have no idea but this might be one of the last places left on the internet you can ask a question like this without getting dogpiled.
I've batted for both teams in my life and i still can't tell you.
Not sure why i'm getting a hard time from our co-commenters. I assumed this place being primarily US and Tech it would be quite liberal.
There are lots of places on the internet where asking honest questions about the gay experience is not scary and will not get you flamed. Indeed, the existence of such venues is crucial to the self-discovery of gay people — especially gay people who live in hostile environments, and who may be in great need of a kind confidant.