The largest study to date on the genetic basis of sexuality (2019)
nature.com
nature.com
See [2]: "Mothers of gay sons, particularly those with older brothers, had significantly higher anti-NLGN4Y levels than did the control samples of women, including mothers of heterosexual sons." There's something going on during pregnancy, and it's starting to be identifiable, but it's not understood yet.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male...
She expands on it and I think her writing breaks it down well (just make sure to check out the appendix correction too!)
That sounds so strange I had to fact-check, and it appears you're right, there does seem to be a measurable association [0].
Perhaps even more interesting, that same article reports: '...the strongest handedness nding for both sexes was a marked tendency for participants who described themselves as ambidextrous also to describe themselves as bisexual'. How weird.
The mechanism is thought to be a maternal immune response to male fetuses, whereby antibodies neutralize male Y-proteins thought to play a role in sexual differentiation during development. This would leave some regions of the brain associated with sexual orientation in the 'female typical' arrangement – or attracted to men. Biochemical evidence for this hypothesis was identified in 2017, finding mothers with a gay son, particularly those with older brothers, had heightened levels of antibodies to the NLGN4Y Y-protein than mothers with heterosexual sons
Edit: a good example of this in action is handedness, because different societies historically have different advantages to using different hands
> Second, the samples used to estimate the handedness heritability were from different places, different years or different centuries and were not always representative of the general population. Heritability is not an intrinsic property of a trait: it varies with phenotypic and additive genetic variances and thus can vary across populations and across generations
Study here : https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9549243/
"We present an overview of behavioral genetics research on homosexual and heterosexual orientation. Family, twin, and adoptee studies indicate that homosexuality and thus heterosexuality run in families. "
Baseless theories: people do this to feel better about LGBT discrimination or the idea of sexuality being out of our control is too scary for dudes who haven’t come to terms with their own masculinity. The latter isn’t necessarily shade, I’m not sure I figured it out until my mid-20s.
And yet, it's the other commenters who seem backwards to you?
Parent wants to push the "fixed gender" case instead.
I'm sure you can surmise the implications of this. Evolutionary biology has been making steady gains in the "nature not nurture" department and it has become an absolute lighting rod to discuss.
I don't really like these appeals to motive; this is quite an interesting empirical question that's disconnected from discrimination. Even if it would turn out that homosexuality is a choice (I don't think it is, but let's assume it would be) then this wouldn't change my position one iota. People choose whether to smoke weed or not, and I also think people should have the freedom to choose to do so.
I'm not so sure what the evidence says on this, but it appears it's less of clear-cut "it's 100% genetic" than it seems to be. These things are notoriously hard to study.
The real problem seems to be that people are afraid that the "God hates fags" people will run with these kind of things, but these people will do their thing anyway no matter what the science says on account of being homophobic twats.
As I pointed out in my other comment[1], I definitely chose to have gay sex at some point and certainly could have chosen not to. I don't think it's so black/white.
I've always found that somewhat offensive, because it somehow takes the sub/unconscious opinion that being gay is defective: "You wouldn't discriminate against someone with a severe birth defect, well gay people can't control it either." Fuck that. Whether it comes about from the genes, or through the environment, or most likely through some combination of the two, it is completely illogical for anyone who has ever felt sexual attraction of any kind to argue that it can "controlled", so I don't need some appeal to "it must be in my genes" to make me feel better.
On a related note, I don't see that the is it a choice? question is even meaningful in the first place. Preferences aren't generally something we get to choose. I could probably learn to like some unfamiliar genre of music simply by listening to a lot of it, but you could offer me a heap of money to like the PHP programming language and I'd still be unable to do so. My opinion of it isn't something I can so easily will to change.
21% of Monozygotic twins are left-handed when the other is right-handed. This is higher than the general population.
Aren't there plenty of genes that just lead to higher causes of something? There are identical albino and non-albino twins.
I'm really skeptical that albinism is environmental. But stranger things have happened, I suppose.
That's very different from the human approach which is to try to find something specific.
I mean compare it to blood diseases based on genetics. There are many genes that lead to health problems that comes down the shape. But it's not just one thing, it's a spread of things. We're thinking Gay is a specific gene we're just as unlikely to find it.
Not arguing any specific direction, but I just suspect the findings if they don't include variances in their methods.
At the end of the day though, many other factors will contribute, so genetics can only explain so much. With aggressive data collection during development, I would wager we could get sexual orientation prediction much higher. Probably not high on the proverbial bio-ethicist's wishlist of things to make broadly available.
One potential issue I see is that the DNA of any person has an arbitrary length, which poses some challenges in the design of a neural network. Traditionally, this has been solved with LSTMs or RNNs, but as far I know these are designed for data with a temporal dimension (such as text or speech, which progress with time). I'm not sure if that's true for DNA.
But once we open that door we're going down an extended phenotype rabbithole where you can start to talk about social interactions amongst non-immigrants being partially genetic because of correlations within regions, etc, and hilarity (with a healthy dash of idiocy) ensues.
The greater point being that saying something is either genetic or due to environment is always a pointless exercise because there is no separation, there are merely genes that spread without ever deciding how to allocate blame or credit for their successes and failures.
The caveat here "for complex traits" means things like height, for which we know there are hundreds to thousands of common variants which matter. Some things aren't like that, e.g. simple recessive gene effects are interactions! And, with more data, this may change.
This doesn't mean you can change it, and messing with chemical levels in the hope of finding a configuration which leads to "normality" would be very unethical in my eyes.
My (rusty) recollection of the literature is that our best guess for what most causes homosexuality in human males is the hormone profile given in utero. This is not caused by the fetus's genes, but it will interact with the fetus's genes. Hormone levels could be influenced by the mother's genes[0]
I think what HN-ers are really interested in is, "How much control can we humans practically exercise over this?", the answer being "very little" in both the case of "genes control sexual preference 100%" and "in utero hormone levels control sexuality 100%".
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male...
A one-child policy with exceptions available if the first-born is a girl is a “comically evil level of control” that is hard to imagine being applied in the real world?
Those could still be influences if it was purely genetic. Biological sex is approximately fully genetic (not quite, but very close to it), but womb environment (I remember pH differences specifically being identified as an influence) play a role in which sperm, with which sex chromosomes, are most likely to survive and reach the ova.
On many complex species, the genere isn't defined by the genes.
If you are interested in the topic, I recommend https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blueprint_(book)
I wonder if biology will turn out to have something comparable to the "hidden units" of machine learning, where less specific inputs from DNA combine in some way to produce intermediate - somethings? - that key specific functions. Probably something that will be explored over the next few decades.
Sexual Assault Risks among Gay and Bisexual Men - NCBI - NIH
"One half of men (50.8%) reported childhood sexual assault"
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4117833
Similar: https://i.stuff.co.nz/national/3949087/Abused-more-likely-to...
Here is the speculation part: the more older brothers one has the older they will be from you and entering into sexual experimentation with younger brothers. A quick google shows that this is normal behaviour but the sings are normally similar ages.
I tend to think its probably a mix between nature and nurture.
Regarding your hypothesis, I'd suggest that perhaps queer kids are more likely to be targeted by older male relatives for sexual abuse.
For homosexuality, the systems of sexual attraction in the brain need to tune to the gender somehow, and this is a system which, apparently, isn't 100% successful at aligning gender and sexual attraction. So the answer to "why are some men attracted to men" is the same as "why do men have nipples:" it's because women need to be attracted to men and because women need nipples.
And of course it needs to be said that just because someone's sexual attraction isn't aligned to their gender it doesn't mean that they're inferior. We don't measure the worth of a person by their reproductive success.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antagonistic_pleiotropy_hypo...
[0] https://www.advocate.com/news/daily-news/2010/02/05/study-su...
While the "fertile siblings" theory and evidence make a lot of sense to me, I also find it somewhat depressing, as if being gay is just kind of a fluke byproduct to help your other family members.
And it's only depressing if we define a person's worth by the number of children they have, so let's not do that :)
I think the theory makes more sense in communities in conflict. Missing fathers make the presence of an uncle much more important and high mortality rates make fertility rates more important.
Interestingly that somewhat overlaps (to my untrained eye) with cultures more accepting of homosexuality: early Japan, ancient Greece, modern tribal societies.
If you have a genetic mutation that means 1/4 of your offspring won't bear their own children, but will increase the likelihood of your grandchildren living to adulthood, that may well be something that gets selected for.
Not saying that this is necessarily the case with "gay genes," simply that it is perfectly consistent with standard evolution.
https://www.livescience.com/32467-why-do-men-have-nipples.ht...
This is, or could be, just the how not the why.
We don't measure human worth that way, but evolution measures nothing else!
Imagining success, failure, and purpose is psychological projection.
So it's not like we're some higher-dimensional ethereal beings, not tied to evolution and our natural fitness, with relation to our successes and failures as a species (and even as individuals).
To reverse the "psychological projection" trope, it's just that we learned throu psychological denial to ignore those aspects most of the time...
So apparently you are gay if you have had sex one time with someone of same sex sometime, anytime in your life. Bisexual, bicurious, some one straight who experimented, etc would all then be “gay”, which are all more prevalent than being strictly gay.
That’s like looking for genes that predict left handedness by selecting people who at some point in their lives have written with their left hand. No wonder they got confusing / weak signals. They should have limited to including only people who actually identified as being gay.
I agree that a single encounter probably shouldn't count for the terms of the study.
Not an expert either here though.
I've pointed out on other HN threads that homosexuality has much lower concordance in identical twins (around 40%) than almost any other trait, making it an especially unlikely candidate for direct genetic causes.
- 25% both normal alleles (normal phenotype) - 50% one normal allele (normal phenotype) - 25% both gay alleles (gay phenotype)
But homosexuality is not a gene. I believe that the [fetal androgen exposure theory](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenatal_hormones_and_sexual_o...) is the one currently preferred.
(I'm not commenting on whether being gay has a genetic basis or whether it's an example of kin selection, because honestly, I have no idea.)
For this analogy to be equivalent, it should lead to having gay children benefit the adults enough to allow for more successful breeding.
I do am not commenting on one's gayness has a genetic basis, because I also have not idea.
There is nothing about a possible genetic basis (whether complex and indirect or simple and direct) for an individuals non-reproductiveness that implies it has to result in extiguishing itself.
Humans are social enough that genetics which benefit the group at the expense of the individual are perfectly selectable.
Heck it even works for utterly antisocial species.
All that's required for a trait to persist is for it to be good for any members by any means. It doesn't have to be good for the individual carrier, and it doesn't have to be good in a way that we happen to understand.
> If a gene copy confers a benefit B on another vehicle at cost C to its own vehicle, its costly action is strategically beneficial if p_B > C, where p is the probability that a copy of the gene is present in the vehicle that benefits. Actions with substantial costs therefore require significant values of p. Two kinds of factors ensure high values of p: relatedness (kinship) and recognition (green beards).
The Selfish Gene is probably the most famous way of looking at that concept. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gene-centered_view_of_evolutio...
(1) some people are bisexual and thus would occasionally reproduce and
(2) if sexuality promotes "togetherness" and "group cohesion", then having "our gay uncle who 'has connections' and is always willing to help out the family group" is still beneficial for the family unit and thus a gay gene would not be selected against within that family lineage.
Probably not a majority of the population, but there's no reason for such a "gay gene" (if it were to exist) to be driven to zero.
If such a gene existed (which perhaps it doesn't), it might benefit families who had members carrying it.
This is the same reason some species have evolved alarm-calling when a predator is nearby. It benefits the collective (who share the gene), but at an obvious detriment to the individual's ability to pass on their genes in this case.
(I’m massively oversimplfing of course, my bio knowledge is fairly limited).
* the same gene can have different phenotypes in different individuals. One phenotype may be net negative but the benefit from the other makes it net positive.
* in social animal gene can be carried by relatives. Extreme example is ants and bees, most of them are not fertile but they help to spread their genes by helping those who are.
If it benefits the pool that x% of members have a trait, even full sterility, then the genetics will result in x% having that trait, as long as the benefit continues to exist.
I'm not sure what an example mechanism might be for some mountain cats or spiders or whatever that the species benefits from 4% of their members being sterile, but I see no reason that there couldn't be one, and it doesn't require the unfortunate exhibitors of the trait to preserve and occasionally produce the next exhibitor of the trait.
The naive reaction is: individuals with the "gay gene" won't reproduce and it will eventually die out. A more nuanced perspective is that while that individual won't reproduce, their presence in the community helps the clan's survival, so a community with the gene is overall stronger, so the gene will stay around.
Another striking example: Sickle cell disease will only be deadly if both alleles carry the unfortunate mutation. But the unhealthy allele is unlikely to be eliminated by evolutionary pressure because carrying one allele provides significant protection against malaria.
The interactions between genes and their environment is usually more complicated that these simple examples, but I hope it illustrates that evolutionary pressure may not suffice to erase some apparently unsustainable alleles from the population.
That is why sickle-cell anemia mostly shows up in people whose ancestors came from places with a long history of malaria.
Social pressure to have children, especially if there is a title / wealth / prestige to inherit, would certainly play a role.
For example there is a correlation with sibling order and homosexuality. The more boys your mother had before you the more chance you have of being homosexual. We're talking about a non-negligible increase of over 30%: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male...
And evolving out the former would cause the later to go which is detrimental to the overall health of the species.
"If there was a genetic cause for shortsightedness, why is it still around?"
"If there was such a thing as a genetic disease, why haven't they evolved out?"
"If not having X-ray vision was genetic, wouldn't the absence of X-ray vision have been selected out?"
You really can't expect evolution to accomplish its "goals," per se. It is sort of a gentle flow down a lazy river, towards adaptation.
It seems reasonable that being gay does significantly reduce your ability to have children; therefore it is reasonable to expect that if it was an inheritable trait it would have been selected against.
We have understood how this is not true for decades or even hundreds of years, and it's not even some impossible concept to grasp.
All that's required for a trait to persist, is for it to benefit the pool, not the individual.
The only way the seemingly obvious but incorrect idea you descibed applies is, a trait which is good for the group at the expense of the individual, if it's 100% effective like sterility unlike say alarm-calling which merely carries a risk for the individual, is that such a trait can never grow to where all members exhibit it.
But it can absolutely be strongly selected for maintaining whatever the optimal percentage is. IE, if it benefits the pool for 10% of members to be sterile, then the percentage of sterile members will not decrease through the mechanism you and so many imagine, but will stay at 10% for as long as the benefit exists.
This is a well debunked belief. Genes are selfish, and they only reproduce to the benefit of the gene.
Group selection does not occur.
An example is evolutionary stable strategies, where cheaters persist in the population, even though the pool would be better off if all individuals in a pool were selfishly altruistic towards pool members.
The case with gay genes is different. Regardless of any other trait, I'm genetically prone to not have any offspring. Thus, eventually my genes would be less and less common.
All that's required for a trait to persist is that it benefits the pool.
If the pool benefits from have 1% of members being blind, then so they shall be.
We don't have to understand the benefit for it to exist either.
Or that it's less bad than whatever beneficial trait it's coupled to.
Humans consume a lot of water in order to shed heat. Our backs are pretty f-d up. Our brains waste a lot of energy and require a very long childhood. But on the flip side we're basically terminator compared to the African fauna our primitive ancestors hunted.
From Wikipedia, quoting evolutionary biologist Jerry Coyne: "Group selection isn't widely accepted by evolutionists for several reasons."
[1] Spontaneous = ignoring attempts to "cure" gay orientation.
There is another hypothesis for why this hypothetical gene might not evolve into extinction. Being gay may just be a side effect of it, with some other benefits being the reason this gene stays in our gene pool.
The fact that something is genetic doesn't imply there is no social component. Genetic factors could lead to a predisposition for a certain behavior that would still be altered by environment. There could be many genes that each has some small effect but none of which is an on/off switch. Those would lead to more complicated selection pressures.
We are pretty sure there is a genetic component. We are pretty sure that it isn't just "if you got the gay allele then you's gay".
Also, some gay (or mostly gay) people have children. This is because a) most people are at least a little bit bisexual, b) people may want to have children even if the sex act isn't appealing, and c) there are social pressures to conform.
1. If having gay relatives improved the chances that you will have children and they would survive to themselves reproduce, then evolution could favor maintaining a gay gene.
Remember that for nearly all of our species' existence, and that of the pre-humans we evolved from, we've lived most of our lives in arrangements where our close relatives lived near us and most people in the region were also related to us.
Your children have half your genes. Your siblings' children have a quarter of your genes. So in effect two of your siblings children are equivalent to one of your own as far as getting your genetic material into the next generation goes.
If being gay meant that your sibling does not have their own kids to take care of and so they devote effort that would have gone to raising their own kids to helping their straight siblings' with their kids or to doing things that help the village that those with kids don't have the time for, that might greatly increase the survival rate of those kids enough to make up for not having kids of their own.
2. Being gay doesn't mean you can't have kids. Throughout most of our history, many many people have had kids with people they have not been attracted to. That goes for both gay people and straight people.
3. What if it were a bisexual gene rather than a gay gene? Having people in your tribe that can form with both men and women the kind of close bonds the people form for the sexual partners has some obvious advantages.
Doesn't the question apply to straight people, and anyone else, who don't reproduce?
Perhaps akin to aging phenomena that benefit the species through mortality.
But that's always been a fucked up idea. It shouldn't matter whether it was predetermined or otherwise not in your control. If it's constructed then it's constructed. If it's not then it's not. People shouldn't be oppressed for their sexuality full stop, regardless of reason.
I think the idea of genetic predestination might have been a short-term useful crutch in the past but I hope that we've begun to progress beyond needing people to explain themselves.
You are right, I think, to root the conflict in religion. The dominant religion in the West, Christianity, treats the human body as a given. That is to say that while you are more than just your body, you are certainly not less: there is a union of mind and body that separates only at death. If they disagree, a reconciliation must be attempted from the outside (i.e., by God).
Of course today we have technology that puts a veneer of science on what is really a religious idea: we are essentially our mind and not our body. When the two disagree, we needn't change our minds because we can alter the body through hormones and surgery.
On the face of it, I don't see how you could reconcile these two positions. I think the use of genetic predestination was used as an attempt to do this: if I'm made this way then how can it be wrong to be {gay, trans, etc.}? But in general I think the denominations that were predisposed to blessing homosexuality (for example) were unlikely to need scientific persuasions like that. When it became clear that rigid denominations weren't going to budge, it feels like genetic predestination became unfashionable.
I think that's an inescapable conclusion in traditional Christianity. That will or choice is not necessarily a component of responsibility is something we also adopt in law: involuntary manslaughter is different than premeditated murder, even though the outcome is the same. In other words, will is not essential to guilt, although the degree to which we assess punishments certainly is. I don't know what Catholicism says to that, really, but it does seem to me that the arguments concerning genetic predisposition would have failed in most conservative religious approaches because of the premise.
Even so, I think that this is a mostly ancillary concern. The real issue is that there are competing and irreconcilable views of what it means to be human. Are we human because of the bodies we inhabit? Are we human because of how we can feel about who we are? Because we can transcend our bodies? I would postulate that answering this question is an essentially religious exercise, whether your narrative comes from a biology textbook, genetic programming manual, or the Bible. But that's an opinion that is perhaps even murkier to plumb than the roots of homosexuality in human experience.
That being said, I still doubt that people really have a choice over their sexuality. Otherwise there would be far more stories from people who have "successfully" turned straight or something, instead of stories from people who have tried to suppress their true sexuality for years and who just turned sad in the process.
It might not be genetically determined, but there are so many more immutable determinants to our behaviour that are outside of our control. The brain is a giant state machine and not all of that is plastic all of the time. It might be determined before you are even born, in the womb. It might be determined in your first few years of life. Or it might actually be genetically determined but through a complex interplay from multiple genes, something that our statistical tools can't catch yet, especially as we don't have an objective measure for gayness. Last, there might be multiple ways someone turns gay.
My response to people who argue about this is generally: "So, when did you decide you liked long legs more than large breasts?" Choose whatever pairing of sexual characteristics drives home the choice to the person involved.
Like so many things about "sexuality", at some point we notice them, but rarely do we actively choose them.
I know my taste in women has definitely changed without a change in DNA.
That's why I don't like the "gay gene" argument and never did, not even when it was the hot new thing among assimilationists. It's fundamentally flawed, and not only because it suggests an easy solution to the problem by just making sure no more gay people get born. It grounds the discussion in a "we can't help it" attitude that's ultimately self-defeating because it's always vulnerable to the response that "of course you can help it, even alcoholics have AA, do you have no control over yourself whatsoever?" and there's just no good answer to that.
The form of the argument cedes to the hostile interlocutor that an excuse is required for why we are like we are. I've never understood why anyone thinks that is a good idea.
Second, people are very drawn to having excuses for things, it's much more comfortable to say there's nothing that you can do as opposed to saying there's something you can do but you just didn't. Both of those things are more comfortable than aggressively replying that you have every right to do the thing you did.
Not everyone wants to fight everything all the time.
That one works best when you're part of a community that's visibly willing to back you up on it - when it's evident to your interlocutor that, if they make you have to fight about it, at least you won't be fighting alone. That hasn't been the case for me as often as I'd have liked, but when it has been the case, I've found I rarely even need to say a word.
I came out as gay in a Catholic high school, and it actually went really well for me. But, one day right after Matthew Shepard's murder, our religion class hosted a speaker who wanted to talk about how it was a shame but really he brought it on himself, you know the drill. I didn't say a word because I couldn't, but it turned out I didn't have to, because everyone else in the class - all straight as far as I knew then and, with one exception, as far as I know now - they said everything I would have and more besides. Louder and more persistently than I would have, too. And yeah, in theory there was a power differential there, Authority vs. School Kids, but you know what? That woman turned out not even to have what it took to stand up to a room full of teenagers talking. She fled in disarray, and I have never in my life before or since felt more safe than I did at the end of that half hour. Or felt less alone.
That was the point of the original pride parades, maybe you know and maybe you don't. I was there - admittedly as a child, too young yet to really even understand what I was or start to wonder why, but I was there, marching up the middle of a small Mississippi town with my mom and a bunch of other grown-ups with whom I had something in common that I hadn't even realized yet. "We're here. We're queer. Get used to it."
And people did. Not always happily, and it wasn't always easy, but what it would've cost to shove all those people who marched back in the closet was more than anyone was willing to pay. Better put, it was more than everyone was willing to pay, because - as the march's primary purpose was to demonstrate - everyone was what it would've taken. So they got used to it, instead, and then it turned out never to have been such a big deal after all.
Sweet reason is wonderful, as far as it goes. But if it's going to work, you need the other guy to be willing to meet you in the middle. If he won't do that, you need something to fall back on, if for no other reason than to be able to protect yourself. What that "something" is, is power. Maybe you don't have to use it. Ideally, being seen to have it will be enough. But for even that much to happen, first you have to have it.
We used to understand that. I don't think we do any more.
That's such a heart warming story to read. Thanks for posting it here. I read up about Matthew Shepard. He died 20 years ago, which means your story is equally old. Impressive!
I mean, if they're not that, what are they? It's not like favoring long legs impairs performance with someone who doesn't have them, does it?
> Not everyone wants to fight everything all the time.
No, of course not. But it takes more than one person to not have a fight.
The point is that you didn't consciously choose it. It just "happened".
I don't like cooked bell peppers. I didn't make a conscious choice to dislike cooked bell peppers, and I got forced to eat them as a kid. It's still a "preference" even though I never "chose" it.
Saying that someone "chose" something simply because it isn't written in their DNA is completely off the mark.
> The form of the argument cedes to the hostile interlocutor that an excuse is required for why we are like we are. I've never understood why anyone thinks that is a good idea.
The hostile interlocutor may be someone willing to vote against your rights. You don't necessarily have a choice but to engage them and having a decent argument that hits their own experience can sometimes provoke a change of thought.
In any case, to vote is to exercise power. As I discussed elsewhere in the thread, when reason fails, the best thing with which to counter power is power. Arguments exist on a gradient of rhetorical power, too. And handing someone a rhetorical stick to beat me with just seems like giving a lot of that power away right up front. Why on Earth would I do that in an argument I need to win? Why would anyone?
As for having no choice over, idk, beer vs wine, you can certainly live on beer your entire life even if you (continue to) prefer wine. But will it make you happy? Should a society of beer drinkers force it upon wine drinkers? Note that a partner is a core part of our lives, far more than which liquid you drink.
The pretty abject failure of gay conversation therapy underlines this. Lots of people went into these therapies personally wanting to change, exactly because of societal pressure and expectations.
Would I rather say to you, some random person, "I'm gay" and move on? Or do I want to get into "I'm gay, it's complicated" and have to explain more? Most of the time I just don't want to get into it further.
And I've had conversations with some folks who outwardly say they're straight but privately have described themselves pretty similarly to "Well mostly straight, it's complicated."
It's tiring, and I'd like it if we all came to an agreement that it's complicated, the edges don't line up nicely, and we should all just accept that it's weird. It'd make my life way easier
But it seemed obvious to me. After all, maybe some people are genetically predisposed to eating babies. Doesn't mean I'm going to be okay with that. Sucks for them but they can either suppress the baby eating or go to prison.
But, then you would have to consider why it is they greatly disapprove of it in the first place, is it as unhealthy and dysfunctional as they think? Is it even their place to complain about someone else's affairs?
Yep, that’s why I simply don’t care anymore what rhetoric modern social movements use. Not only usually it makes zero sense, they are ready to ditch it anytime it benefits them.
There is no point in having a serious discourse with anyone who treats it only as a weapon to achieve their goals.
Completely agreed. I don't think we should shy away from trying to understand and explain it though. It's been a puzzling question that people have tried to grapple with for a long time now. I think it would be interesting to understand humans better.
And.. if it is definitively proven that it is nature and not nurture, it might make the lives of individuals easier by not having to deal with as many attacks from those that were intolerant but have changed their minds when exposed to the science. I agree that ideally, those individuals wouldn't be discriminated against in the first place, but that's not the world we live in right now. I would argue that if anyone could do anything to alleviate some of that discrimination with science, it would be an incredibly worthwhile endeavor.
I agree that profiling someone like this could lead into some serious Minority Report territory where you try to arrest someone "before they commit a crime", which will inevitably sweep up a lot of people who wouldn't have committed such a crime.
Having such a deficit in empathy could be considered a disability, like many others, although not one the individual would necessarily be able to recognise, because to them, an absence of empathy would be "normal".
There may be individuals biologically inclined to commit murder, but they still don't have to. Gay people have no autonomy at all in choosing their sexual orientation. Even if you had a direct mandate from god that engaging in homosexual behavior was immoral, it would be unethical to punish someone for the way they were born. Punishing psychopaths for murdering people might have a weak argument against it, but it still seems reasonable under most legal/civic/ethical frameworks.
Surely if men can want to become women, then so can homosexual people want to becomes straight? (Whether or not they can succeed is of course a different issue.)
In that context, whether something is a choice, versus a characteristic that cannot easily be changed, is tremendously important. It elevates the issue from ordinary policing of norms into the realm of human rights.
And of course, it's ridiculous to say that people "latched on" to sexual orientation being immutable to appease "bigots." Sexuality being immutable (or at least not easily changed) is an observation that rests on the experience of countless individuals who suffered tremendous pain and suffering trying to deny their sexual orientation. And the article, of course, nowhere suggests that sexual orientation is a choice. Many things are immutable characteristics, or at least not easily changeable--without being traceable to a specific gene.
Maybe you can argue that it's fine for someone to choose not to be friends with gay people but it shouldn't be OK for the government withhold rights/law/healthcare/social security/education/electricity/water/etc because of it. Who cares if it's genetics or a choice.
Society cares, that’s the point. Society cares about who you have sex with, and society cares about whether something is genetic. If society didn’t care we’d be having a different discussion.
Maximum deconstruction here, and a failure to recognize patterns. I wonder where this thinking will take us?
As to things that are choices, such as polygamy and adultery, the government can certainly punish people for those, even in western countries. It could set the age of consent to 25 if it wanted to--it would certainly have a rational basis for doing so. That's true even in the west, much less anywhere else.
How do you actually know that? You can't just state something like that as a fact and assume people are going to accept it especially in response to an article call "No 'gay gene'".
Not entirely true, I remember there was a case where an English rugby player received a concussion and was put in an induced(?) coma and was gay after he woke up.
However we certainly don't have the capability to change it.
Fundamentally in the modern era? It disrupts our tax codes.
I don’t think it is that uncommon to have phases and be heterosexual for a while and homosexual for another. I haven’t seen a convincing proof that it is immutable, though I think you’re right when you say that it’s not (necessarily) a choice.
But you’re basically using the reasoning the OP found unhelpful, just swapping immutability instead of genetics. You should not be protected from discrimination because you are something you did not chose; you should be protected because you’re a human and deserve the same opportunities as any other. Who cares with whom you want to have sex?
> As to things that are choices, such as polygamy and adultery, the government can certainly punish people for those, even in western countries.
It is just as wrong when it’s done to enforce narrow moral norms and a reactionary view of sexuality. Again, who cares, as long as both parties consent and nobody gets hurts?
Polygamy is different and raise more issues than just 2 humans having sex.
There are many things that are (practically) immutable that aren't rooted in genetics, so no, the distinction isn't unimportant.
> It is just as wrong when it’s done to enforce narrow moral norms and a reactionary view of sexuality. Again, who cares, as long as both parties consent and nobody gets hurts?
"As long as both parties consent" is a particular view of human sexuality that is not even fully embraced in the west, and is largely rejected everywhere else. It's perfectly legitimate for societies to enforce what libertines might regard as "narrow" and "reactionary" sexual norms--so long as they don't discriminate against protected classes. A society could decide, for example, that the destructive effect of adultery on families and children warrants its prohibition. That's a choice a society can make, or not make. We can debate the merits of it, but human rights does not require a society to accept the values of the western sexual revolution.
The story is quite different when it comes to immutable sexual characteristics. That elevates it into the realm of issues such as discrimination based on race or ethnicity--into a human rights issue. We regard those very differently.
Yet in this case it’s used for the same purpose, building an argument saying that people should not be punished for it because they can’t change it. It’s moving the goalposts and it is not productive in the long run. There are much better reasons to accept homosexuality.
> "As long as both parties consent" is a particular view of human sexuality that is not even fully embraced in the west, and is largely rejected everywhere else.
Indeed, if you believe in human rights and that having pleasure does not give someone the right to harm someone else. The fact that there are some horrible people or repressive societies does not make that any less true.
> It's perfectly legitimate for societies to enforce what libertines might regard as "narrow" and "reactionary" sexual norms--so long as they don't discriminate against protected classes.
That is very US-specific. Protected classes in itself is a device to afford protection to some people whilst keeping the moral right to be arbitrarily repressive in any other way. Discrimination is wrong regardless of whether the reason is in a list of things politicians feel like protecting.
> A society could decide, for example, that the destructive effect of adultery on families and children warrants its prohibition. That's a choice a society can make, or not make. We can debate the merits of it, but human rights does not make.
Yes, and the loss of freedom is balanced against the gains. If serious studies show evidence of harm from adultery, you have a point. Otherwise it is as sensible as forbidding video games or kitchen knives.
> We can debate the merits of it, but human rights does not require a society to accept the values of the western sexual revolution.
Not being punished for something that is not wrong or for a victimless act is not a concept born during the sexual revolution. It has a long tradition from antiquity, and was quite popular during the enlightenment, and is part of the bedrock of the democratic ideal.
If you accept the concept of human rights, it implies that you accept not to punish people for their choice of sex partners (again, as long as that choice does not violate the human rights of said partners).
> The story is quite different when it comes to immutable sexual characteristics. That elevates it into the realm of issues such as discrimination based on race or ethnicity--into a human rights issue. We regard those very differently.
I know you like to say you do (collectively; there are many examples in this thread), but it does not make it right. It’s also, again, a very US-specific concept.
The problem is that there are some people who honestly believe that homosexuality is self-harm and/or harms society. If everyone believed nobody was getting hurt, then it would be a much easier conflict to resolve.
Certainly there's a lot of plain bigotry in these arguments, but, for instance, I have a friend who was really torn up about attending her brother's gay wedding. She's respectful of her brother's husband and loves her brother deeply, but is honestly concerned about non-provable harm to her brother's eternal soul. She's probably in the minority of those who oppose gay marriage, but as far as I can tell, it comes from a place of pure compassion.
Also, getting back to polygamy, what's your specific objection? That true informed consent is difficult to ascertain? In 50 years, will we be looking back on this as duo-sexual bigotry?
I agree that we shouldn't be discriminating against homosexuals, but it's surprisingly difficult to translate that gut feeling into robust reasoning from widely agreed first principles.
Right, but that’s a problem. Particularly when the same people are up in arms any time they perceive a threat to their freedom of religion, without realising that they impinge on others’.
> Certainly there's a lot of plain bigotry in these arguments, but, for instance, I have a friend who was really torn up about attending her brother's gay wedding. She's respectful of her brother's husband and loves her brother deeply, but is honestly concerned about non-provable harm to her brother's eternal soul. She's probably in the minority of those who oppose gay marriage, but as far as I can tell, it comes from a place of pure compassion.
This is terrible, though I understand where she’s coming from. I hope she will find the strength to put some of her beliefs aside and accept her brother for what he is. Life is too short to fight about that.
> Also, getting back to polygamy, what's your specific objection? That true informed consent is difficult to ascertain? In 50 years, will we be looking back on this as duo-sexual bigotry?
That is one of my problems, yes. I have accepted that I might not be popular and that people in the future might look down on us as repulsive barbarians. You can’t please everyone, and I won’t pretend that I have no prejudice.
> I agree that we shouldn't be discriminating against homosexuals, but it's surprisingly difficult to translate that gut feeling into robust reasoning from widely agreed first principles.
The core principle is freedom, tolerance and human rights (which are itself not too far from classical Christian values). Everything comes from there. You don’t want other people imposing you their moral principles? Don’t do it to others. You want the freedom to have your religion? Accept that other people will follow another one, or none at all. Most people just want to live in peace without being persecuted or discriminated against. Even the Catholic Church got the message after centuries of religious wars.
Everyone has a right to not be executed or go to jail for their sexual orientation or gender identity. This is sadly not the case in many countries.
The sand trap of moral relativism is not the point - people in the 'west' are making the normative claim that this is a fundamental human right.
New information about possible genetic determinants of sexual orientation (or lack thereof) is not fundamental to determining if this is in the "realm of human rights". What is key is: people who are LGBT emphatically cannot choose to 'convert' to some other sexual orientation or gender identity. Thus, any private or public policy that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity is wrong.
If there's a difference between that phraseology, I don't mean it to be substantive--I agree with what you said. It's OP who rejects that premise.
It’s not a question of moral relativism. You’d have to argue that any behavior is a crime in order for it to be legitimate for perpetrators to suffer consequences. Otherwise, it is wrong that someone should suffer consequences, all else equal.
I like nachos. Tomorrow I might not like nachos. It is wrong in any society if my liking or disliking of nachos results in me being killed, bullied, shamed, etc. Any society that claims a right of legitimacy to impose social norms in this way on the liking or disliking of nachos is a morally wrong society. There’s no debate about this. You can either argue convincingly that nacho preference is a crime, or else any attempt to treat it like a crime is wrong.
Okay, but there was a time when homosexuality was a crime in the majority of Western countries, and in some places around the world, it still is a crime. What then/there?
Moral reasoning based on current law is partially circular reasoning, and also tends to ossify current law/state of moral progress.
One easy place to start-- are the laws are based on kinds of dubious claims that our own social and scientific history has rejected?
And at least in Africa, Western evangelicals have spent a lot of time and effort exporting their same stupid ideas about homosexuality. So our Western approaches should be pretty easy to copy-paste there. :)
Why should we consider the moral choices of a culture to which we do not belong wrong? What benefit comes to the people affected, or to us through this mental finger wag?
But, if I wanted to try to push back, ... your nachos require cheese. Cheese requires cows. Raising of cows are a major source of greenhouse gas etc... Therefore you should not be allowed to eat nachos as it's bad for society at large and you should be forced to stop eating them. (substitute beef or whale meat or whatever it takes to see the point).
Or are you making the claim that it is never morally justified for any action to be punished?
A world in which gender transition were a trivial weekend occurrence would not excuse the gender wage gap. If conversion therapy were effective, it would still not be moral to imprison people for being gay. Being able to lighten one's skin does not, and should not, excuse the shooting of Black people at traffic stops.
For some of this, this isn't an armchair "design space". Some of us still have people shouting "faggot" at us from passing cars. Some of us have strangers threatening to kill us in the supermarket. Some of us have been fired when our old names were found out. Some of us are trying to figure out how to tell our children how not to be murdered. These kinds of discrimination are not "perfectly legitimate" social choices. They have impact on actual human beings.
I’m not “armchair designing” anything. I’m from a Muslim country that does not accept western notions of individualism or sexual permissiveness. So it’s important that, even then, LGBT rights have a solid justification in the fact that it’s biology, not choice. That’s something you can educate people about and improve things. Invoking fallacious hypotheticals like “what if sexual orientation was a choice”—which is the exact opposite of what LGBT advocates believe to be true—undermines that. Instead, it seems like a pretext for universalizing western sexual morality more broadly. That’s imperious—there is no reason why protecting LGBT rights should require embracing western ideas about sexual morality directed to voluntary choices. And ultimately, it’s actively harmful for the hundreds of millions of LGBT people who live outside the west.
As someone not from the west, I hold these beliefs very firmly. The abuse and oppression I saw growing up was the inevitable result of patriarchal culture. Traditional gender and sexual norms are not worth saving. I hope some day they're seen in the same light we see feudalism or chattel slavery today.
So, yes, in that sense "born that way" is a compromise with bigots.
It’s impossible to deny that socially liberal societies today aren’t doing a great job at one of the fundamental functions of a society: raising children. North America and Western Europe suffer from birth rates so low they’d soon cease to exist if it wasn’t for immigrants from socially conservative countries (Latinos in America, Muslims in Europe).
> Fifty-two percent of married, religious, politically conservative people (with kids) are very happy — versus only 14 percent of single, secular, liberal people without kids.
In Bangladesh, where I'm from, it's taken for granted that getting married, going to mosque, and having kids is the way to a good and happy life. Yes, Bangladeshis are backwards people in many ways. But maybe they’re not wrong about everything. Maybe in this area, Bangladeshis know something about being human that social liberals have talked Americans into forgetting?
Who could've guessed.
Low birth rates in the US and EU are a direct result of socially conservative public policy, where having kids generally means one's standard of living goes down. France has the best child support and consequently the highest birth rates in the EU.
There is no such Western notion of individualism or sexual permissiveness. The sexual mores of Roman Catholics in South America are very different than the sexual mores of Roman Catholics in Italy and very different from some polygamous Mormon enclaves in the US. The "West" once uniformly banned homosexuality and has been very inconsistent in slowly coming to tolerate it, and such tolerance has certainly also grown in the "East" in a similar slow and inconsistent fashion.
What there is, in many countries, is a notion of the necessity of secularism in law and government. Brought about precisely because religions cannot agree about basic fundamental points of morality and they have been all too willing to fight each other over it throughout history. In order for the various religious sects to stop fighting one another, it was agreed in many nations that the law shouldn't play favorites with a given religions view of morality.
This separation of church and state is indeed found far and wide and certainly goes beyond the "West". The underlying principle, that you cannot get people even in a single nation to agree upon what otherwise harmless things are taboo, ultimately leads to other protections for self expression and in this case homosexuality.
I present the counter example of birth sex, which is quite genetic and practically immutable for most people. Do those same countries afford women and men equal freedoms and opportunities, considering the biological nature of the trait?
A model individualist society would. A model collectivist society might not. With my collectivist hat on: Whether or not something is "a choice" doesn't have any bearing on whether it is good for society. Even a biologically, incorrigibly gay person should reproduce sexually, for the good of the collective.
I can speak to this pretty confidently as somebody living in Utah and raised Mormon: The biology argument does not matter. Religious people acknowledge that some are born with predispositions, even strong ones, to commit certain sins. They consider them challenges to be overcome. They absolutely do not exempt you from the responsibilities of a member of that society.
Like it or not, sexual actions and lifestyles are a choice. Muslims and Christians know this. Fighting the biology battle might lose us ground (to the extent that any evidence at all comes up against it), and it will never gain us any.
... and if the science turns out otherwise? We just ignore reality so people are not harmed? it would be preferable if individual rights are protected regardless. Sorry, just my "western" view.
You seem to be suggesting that it would be radical, then, for us to object to forced homosexuality in a culture that practiced it alongside "conformity".
Religious affiliation is a choice and yet it is protected by human rights.
You are on pretty thin ice. Discrimination is a shitty thing to do, against anyone, even criminals. If someone is engaging in morally questionable behavior then there are ways to influence the morals of that individual that do not involve discrimination or at least we hope there are such ways.
Arresting criminals is just a pragmatic response to prevent future crime because in many cases there are no other options. If there was a way to suppress criminal behavior through a simple and voluntary one time treatment (theoretical rehabilitation program with 0% recidivism rate) then prison would be considered extremely cruel or it would be reduced down to a glorified retirement home for the few individuals who refused the rehabilitation.
If there was a treatment for lack of heterosexuality (as opposed to a treatment for homosexuality) it would still not be the right thing to force it upon people. We do not force people to convert their religion so why forcibly change sexual orientation through discrimination?
I don’t think it’s ethnocentric to call out homophobia in other cultures, just like I wouldn’t call it ethnocentric to call out racism, sexism, or anti-semitism in other cultures.
> And of course, it’s ridiculous to say that people “latched on” to sexual orientation to appease “bigots”
Isn’t this pretty much what happened in the sex and gender research communities? I don’t have a cite but, I thought this was pretty well accepted.
Saying we must offer respect to everyone's choices is just wrong. We certainly don't want to ensure someone's right to be a homophobic asshole in a workplace for example. And it's not as simple as just saying being LGBTQ is a private thing that doesn't affect others either. Trans bathroom rights, marriage license rights, adoption rights, etc.. The argument to ban gay conversion camps seems much harder to make if one believes identity is purely a choice. If homosexuality is perceived as a choice, then onlookers will wonder who influenced someone to make a choice to be gay, which muddies the perception of being gay being a personal private thing.
Homophobia is bad, but wishing it weren't a thing doesn't change the reasoning that intrinsic qualities are a lot more important to protect than choices.
Sexual orientation is more deserving of protection than, say, holocaust denialism. Religion is the only protected class that is a choice, but for many people, it's not so much a choice as an inherited identity and similarly fixed.
Imagining it were a choice has so many additional implications, which, while dumb, are genuine fears of some conservative worldviews, but I guess would be real problems. Frustrating, circuitous logic.
That's false though. Being intrinsically an asshole doesn't mean we shouldn't try to prevent people from being assholes. You have no more reason to believe that some people aren't intrinsically assholes, and that leads to the next part of my argument...
> Saying we must offer respect to everyone's choices is just wrong.
You're constructing a horrendous straw-man here. The distinction you're missing is the boundary between anti-social behavior and pro-social behavior. Homophobia is inherently anti-social. Queer sexuality is not. Murder and theft are anti-social. Sex with someone who looks like you is not.
> The argument to ban gay conversion camps seems much harder to make if one believes identity is purely a choice.
No it isn't, because the argument to ban gay conversion camps is based on the fundamental principle of consent. That's why the predominant conversation is about _minors_ and _forced_ conversion therapy with additional important conversations about whether adults are able to consent to it.
I disagree. In a universe where being gay is a choice, there are many additional assumptions to be made that make that extend to effects on others besides yourself. I mentioned a few. I think the trans example is particularly salient, though uncomfortable.
> No it isn't, because the argument to ban gay conversion camps is based on the fundamental principle of consent. That's why the predominant conversation is about _forced_ conversion therapy with additional important conversations about whether adults are able to consent to it.
I disagree. The reason there are movements to ban them is that they're detrimental pseudo science with evidence of harm. There's plenty of alternative places to ship kids that they don't want to go to that we deal with. Religious camps and what not. In a world where being gay is 100% just a choice people make, gay conversion camps might still be ineffective, but at worst they're just trying to change someone's mind.
If you want to evaluate the ethics of accepting homosexuality if its a choice, you have to first center your world view in all of the side effects that entails. Which is annoying because a lot of them are also misinformed conservative talking points. But its not just people are instead having gay sex by choice and that's the only difference. Now there is a conversation to be had over how that choice is being made across society.
That's a pretty gross perspective to write out, and I don't really want to write such things anymore, so I'll likely stop. But there's a perspective, and from what I casually observe, is a genuine concern among some more conservative leaning folks. People are concerned that young people are being pushed into harmful surgeries. To some dumb extent, they have a point if trans feelings are "just a choice". They have no point in reality, because it's not a choice.
Yes. In the present world unfortunately I don’t think we have lots of data to say either way, though it’s probably a combination of both. We should be tolerant, and also accept that not wanting to conform to gender stereotypes does not necessarily means that one needs to change sex, though sometimes it does.
> But there's a perspective, and from what I casually observe, is a genuine concern among some more conservative leaning folks. People are concerned that young people are being pushed into harmful surgeries.
I think that’s a very valid concern, considering the irreversibility of it and the potential harm. Being conservative is not in itself a bad thing: you can be conservative, empathetic and tolerant. There is no such excuse for homophobia, though, when there is no harm done to anyone.
All of a sudden both of those camps have ammunition for their points.
Saying that it's "genetically determined" (or at least innately determined) very nicely sidestepped that. To the extent that that is not true, then you have to grapple with those other questions.
Indeed if that's true, i.e. that there is an innate immutability between the two, then the whole question is conveniently moot and we can instead turn our attention to figuring how to combat these fears at a rhetorical and cultural level (still a Herculean task but at least a step forward).
The fear, on both sides of that coin, comes from if that's not true.
It seems to be extremely common over the ages that women acting like men is more accepted than men acting like women. Even during times when women acting like men in some respect was highly taboo, the reverse almost always seems to be viewed as worse. (I.E. back in the days when a woman wearing pants was scandalous, it generally seems like a guy wearing a woman's dress was even more scandalous).
This dislike of men acting like women definitely seems to be one factor in modern homophobia (although it is not the only factor). It also seems to factor a lot into transphobia (which seems to be much more focused on trans women than on trans men). Of course I suspect that transphobia in men is frequently intertwined with homophobia. The idea being the revulsion found in the idea of finding out that the woman you are dating "is really a man" (in the bigot's mind), making them effectively gay.
But nature does not care whether it’s convenient or not. If this gets disproven, then what?
Taken at face value that is a far stronger statement than "nature does not care about convenience." This is saying "in this instance, we should not care about the truth of nature. There is no policy value to be attained by finding out the truth of the matter."
We certainly should not let convenience dictate our policies. That a statement happens to be convenient should not be why we accept its truth. But that's a different statement than the parent comment. All I'm trying to explain is why certain segments of the population would believe it valuable to figure out whether innateness is true or not.
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> If this gets disproven, then what?
There are significant policy repercussions if this were to be conclusively disproven (the unlikely extreme would be if it turned out that sexual orientation was entirely mutable given the right external situation). In education alone, arguments of whether certain curricula or environments "turn people gay" or "turn people straight" would take on a far more urgent tone for large swaths of the population.
Could a local government mandate exposure to effective gay conversion therapy in a school environment (just exposure, not forcing a course of therapy)?
Culturally whether conservative parents would allow their children to play with gay children or children from gay families would likewise take on an additional urgency.
Many issues of policy have basically been decided on the assumption of "whether you like homosexuality or not, it's immutable so you may as well as treat it as if it were to stay," which is already controversial enough. If that's not true, then policy must grapple with the question of whether sexual orientation is an intrinsically valuable thing (and given that mainstream society is predominantly heterosexual, that would inevitably morph into whether homosexuality is an intrinsically valuable thing, since I suspect most people who identify as heterosexual value their own heterosexuality), which is an even more divisive topic in the U.S.
Society presently allows extreme leeway on providing value in every other way imaginable. We allow people to work in ad-tech for crying out loud. Ok, that was a bit of a joke, but the point is that society not only allows people to not contribute to the social good, it perniciously promotes people perpetuating palpable public harm for personal profit. Singling out sexuality on this particular front is patently perfidious.
> since I suspect most people who identify as heterosexual value their own heterosexuality
You may be correct about the percentage of people with this particular value, but I think it would be because of something other than mainstream predominance. I think it's more likely that "value" is an inapt word and that most people just don't ever imagine any alternative as being realistic given their...uhh...predicament.
Perfidious it may be, but the question of innateness has very real policy effects. The best comparison is probably religion. Parents are allowed to send their children to religion camps. Should they be allowed to send their children to conversion therapy camps? Perhaps therapy is too coercive, but what about something less coercive, but more effective?
If it is innate then conversion therapy can be easily banned on grounds of inefficacy and therefore active harm. If sexual orientation is entirely mutable then the question shifts altogether.
> I think it's more likely that "value" is an inapt word
I very intentionally chose "value" because I think many members of the homosexual community value homosexuality in the same way that I think many members of the heterosexual community value heterosexuality. This is the whole point of why "pride" is more than just a simple slogan.
Indeed I think even the very act of calling "singling out sexuality to be perfidious" demonstrates just how much value it holds for people. If it were as simple as whether one liked broccoli or not, why would anyone ever care?
I've mentioned this elsewhere, but I think an illuminating example is the Deaf community's attitude towards cochlear implants, where large swaths of the community actively reject cochlear implants and value their own Deafness as an intrinsic attribute to be celebrated on its own. Indeed among members of that community there is a tendency to try to value Deafness as an immutable attribute and to shun attempts to make it mutable (it is extremely controversial for parents to outfit children with cochlear implants, even were these cochlear implants to perfectly replicate normal hearing and for people born Deaf segments of the community view it as a sort of betrayal for them to attempt to use cochlear implants).
The question of mutability remains an important one that has many implications.
Society's desire to bend itself backward to accommodate religious sectarian meme indoctrination is a huge moral blind spot. I don't think many communities are able to honestly discuss consent as applied to religious obedience and obeisance. That doesn't mean we should consider it a moral standard.
> Indeed I think even the very act of calling "singling out sexuality to be perfidious" demonstrates just how much value it holds for people.
It's not the sexuality that has value. The value is in not being the subject of a lie constructed to mask arbitrary oppression because of a religious meme.
> If it were as simple as whether one liked broccoli or not, why would anyone ever care?
I think we can turn this on its head to make it more apt to demonstrate why this reasoning doesn't work for me. Heterosexual people don't form communities for themselves on the basis of heteroidentification (I mean, some definitely do, but it's also definitely an extreme minority). There are communities and there are LGBTQ-oriented communities and there are even (we should acknowledge) straight-exclusionary communities, but we might rightly look askance at anyone who desires LGBTQ-exclusionary communities. So then we have to ask ourselves why, and we can look to your broccoli example...
Maybe you enjoy eating broccoli. Let's say you do. For the sake of argument, let's also say that while you like broccoli you don't identify yourself as "a broccoli person". Like...when you're at parties and people ask you what things you enjoy, you don't even mention broccoli. Then someone comes along and says "everyone who enjoys broccoli has to die". That's you. You're the person who they want to die. Now you care about the broccoli situation, but you care about not being oppressed and you care about solidarity and support, not about broccoli. In that environment you will form bonds with other broccoli eaters, not because of the broccoli, but because oppression forges bonds among the oppressed.
Now non-broccoli-eaters, on the other hand, don't have to spend their lives in fear that someone will beat them up or kill them for enjoying broccoli (because they don't), which means that broccoli isn't on their minds. Like basically ever. At best you could say that once in a while a non-broccoli-eater might be relieved that they aren't in the difficult position of someone wanting them dead because of what they like eating.
The bonds of identification are a consequence of the oppression, not of the broccoli. Broccoli is just the point of intersection.
I think "the big question" some people still have is whether being gay is perfectly fine or not. If it is, then that question of things "turning people gay" is not so important. It's like asking if watching the Simpsons will make people like the Simpsons. Well yeah, it might, but there's nothing wrong with liking the Simpsons, so what's the problem?
Put into other words: thinking that having more gay people is a problem depends on thinking that being gay is problem in the first place, and that is the primary issue.
> and the flip side of that fear: that the straight community might use successful conversion therapy to eliminate the gay community.
Nobody will bat an eye if someone discovers they are straight after thinking they were gay. I don't know, maybe they saw one of the million heteronormative movies that are constantly produced and it somehow clicked on them; whatever, it's fine.
What is objectionable though, is to try to force someone into a given sexuality, instead of letting them be and discover their sexuality in their own terms.
I think this is very true and is a more fundamental question than what I've posed here.
Another way of stating my point is that the question of "innateness" allowed large swaths of the community to sidestep this question.
And this question is a very deep rabbit hole for the current cultural and political situation in the U.S.
Ask anyone who is comfortable in their sexuality whether they would be willing to take, say a course of therapy, that would change their sexuality. I think the majority would be unwilling, far more than the number of people who would be willing to sign up to a lecture that would promise to make them love the Simpsons. And I think that would be true for people who cherish, abhor, or are even indifferent to homosexuality (the exact proportions among those populations are probably different, but I suspect all of them would rise into the majority). There is of course, often due to mainstream pressure, many homosexual people who are intensely uncomfortable with their sexual orientation and wish to change it, but even taking them into account I still don't think they would make up the majority.
> Nobody will bat an eye if someone discovers they are straight after thinking they were gay.... What is objectionable though, is to try to force someone into a given sexuality, instead of letting them be and discover their sexuality in their own terms.
The problem is what counts as discovering their sexuality on their own terms. To borrow an example from one of my sibling comments, should schools be allowed to offer a gay conversion therapy course? Should schools be allowed to offer a straight conversion therapy course?
I suspect your answer would probably be "yes" if they're electives or both if they're mandatory, but this would already demonstrate how thorny of an issue this is. Nobody would care if a school only offered a "Simpsons' appreciation course" and not a "Simpsons' criticism course" or vice versa. (Of course the riposte is that sexual orientation, as a central component of one's identity, is a far more important topic, but there is yet another endless set of back-and-forths to be had on that topic). But the important thing is that these questions fade into irrelevancy if sexual orientation is immutable, but come immediately to the forefront if sexual orientation is mutable.
To recap my point is not to say that mutability of sexual orientation is the only big or even among the biggest questions, but to emphasize that it is a big question with many implications. To say that the mutability of sexual orientation is irrelevant is to miss a lot of the policy implications that hinge on its truth or falsity.
EDIT: A more apt comparison is probably religion, to the extent that you accept beliefs to be mutable. Should parents be allowed to send their children to religious camps? If yes, should parents be allowed to send their children to conversion therapy? If conversion therapy is too coercive, should they be allowed to send them to conversion camps? At what point does it become coercion?
All of these questions are very nicely sidestepped by immutability. No parents shouldn't send their kids to conversion therapy or conversion camps because they're ineffective and because they are ineffective at best they're a nuisance, at worst they inflict psychological trauma. But if they are effective then all of a sudden the parameters of the conversation shift drastically.
I guess my personal gripe with most arguments against freedom of sexual orientation is that they all seem axiomatic or circular. Like, "because it's bad", "because it's anti-natural", "because this god says so", or some other chain of these that inevitably gets circular.
Your example comparison with religion seems on point, but also super thorny hehe. And since i'm not religious, it doesn't resonate too much either. Sorry.
I don't know if an analogy with musical preferences would be apt. Yes, it seems much more banal, but people also develop their identities around musical preferences sometimes, so it's not completely off!
And if, say, i was a metalhead, then, it wouldn't matter all that much if i've felt immutable love for metal all my life, or my preferences changed over time, or i chose it for some reason, or even if i love other styles! (maybe i'm extending this analogy too much) All that matters is that it doesn't harm other people. On the contrary: i'd share my love for metal with other metal lovers. Win-win.
Maybe it's a super dumb argument, but TBH that's kinda how i feel about sexual orientation or other important preferences. I just don't see the point in invalidating or not accepting other people's preferences and desires, as long as they are not harmful to others.
Thanks for the exchange, and i hope this wasn't too rambly!
Something being genetic/inherent has very little to do with whether it should be viewed as morally acceptable.
Of course, I am well aware of how troublesome it is to find empirical grounding in morality, but it always seemed to me that sexual relationship between two consenting partners was nobody else's business, least of all mine. Choice, genetics, curiosity, etc: what difference does it make?
I am about as "straight" as it comes: I for the life of me can't figure out the sexual appeal of men, but it also isn't at all obvious to me why I should be offended by the idea that there are people that think otherwise. And even if tomorrow Casanova came out and decided publicly that he is making a conscious choice to from now own only sleep with men, after decades of sexual adventures with women--well, what difference does it make?
If someone is straight and they have a gay experience that is something that could haunt them for the rest of their life. This seems to be less of a thing in the other direction. Maybe this is societies fault though. The lack of acceptance causes the inner shame.
But the notion of letting people be free to choose is pretending that there is nothing that will influence the choices they make. Most people will be straight genetically and that is the way society leans today.
Encouraging experimentation can have negative consequences.
- gay is not binary neither through time (people do evolve both way while getting old) neither through ‘space’ (some people are half/half, some people have some preference for love and others for sex, and so on)
- genes are not expressed linearly, and one slight expression in the womb can mean something big, or nothing or maybe something?
- social pressure about sexuality start early even though we may get better at avoiding some: blue for boys, pink for girls, boys do sports, blablabla and so on
- internal development and expression of sexuality does not happen at the same pace and at the same amplitude for everybody (some people really are asexual their whole life) and of course the familly, sister/brotherhood, socio-economical environment influence it too
So in these studies of sexuality and even worse, with the metastudies, I’m always left with the feeling that the hypothesis tested by it was broken from the start. What was the question they were trying to answer? « Is it biologically complicated? » Ok yes. « Do we have the tool to even make the distinction between a weak correlation due to the sample bias? » Can’t see how in this study. What am I missing?
Some people IS asexual. Asexuality it's a valid sexual orientation like being bi/pan/homo or heterosexual. It isn't lack of sexual development or sexual expression or result of family, socio-economical environment influences.
Perhaps, you should inform about it better : https://www.asexuality.org/?q=overview.html
That's simply the plural version: if one person is asexual, multiple people are asexual.
What they found was 5 areas of the genome that had predictive potential for people being gay or straight. Combined, they were able to predict about 25% of what makes someone gay. The other 75% is environmental.
Note that some "environmental factors" may still be genetic in nature. For example there is strong evidence in animals that the prenatal environment has an impact on homosexual behavior. Which means that a mother's genetics can be correlated with her children's sexuality. Therefore a gene could impact homosexuality through changing the environment in the mother's womb. In that case the child having that gene would be correlated with the child being homosexual and the gene would show up in this study. But the differences between the child's genetics and the mother's would be an environmental factor.
Pandering to what bigots need is not productive or helpful.
It's difficult to think of a PC analogy here, so maybe... super villain mind control device strapped to someone's head. Provably unjustified behaviors due to the mind control device implies the ethical thing to do is try to remove the device. Treating someone normally implies an implicit belief that they're normal. Sound biological evidence that being queer is just how some people are feels like the best way to reinforce that belief and remove requirements for heteronormativity.
> wouldn't you want their existence to be justified
In my ideal world, I would want my existence to be justified even if I 100% chose to be bisexual, gay, trans, etc. So yes, I do want it to be justified, but I don't want genetics to be the justification.
This paper suggests genetics control at least 25% of variance in sexual orientation. We know hormone profiles control another decently large proportion. Are you saying you are upset that deterministic factors cause queer identities? or are you trying to say you wish a deterministic factor for queer identities wasn't necessary for equal treatment?
The first feels strange, the latter makes a lot of sense.
The reason we should be tolerant of homosexuality is because it's as healthy and harmless as heterosexuality, not because it's some sort of handicap.
The predictability of something isn't the issue though. It's whether or not something is actually in your control. Being gay is not a choice.
If homosexuality were purely a choice then there would be great perceived harm in allowing gay individuals to influence other individuals to be gay. It's hard to construct examples of this because being gay is not a choice, and any hypotheticals here would come off as very bigoted. There's people in this very thread already jumping on the opportunity to suggest that if it's not all genetic that maybe we're culturally encouraging kids to be trans. Consider for a moment that opinions like this aren't out a desire to oppress people, but fear that kids are being manipulated into sex change operations. That's FALSE, but in an alternate universe where its just a choice... it's arguably true. The harm is dependent on the nature of it. Trans suicide rates are really high. In this INCORRECT alt world where we're 100% its just a choice, people being supportive of trans gender folks look like they're the ones at fault for leading people down a dark path.
> The reason we should be tolerant of homosexuality is because it's as healthy and harmless as heterosexuality,
I agree. But the reason we MUST be tolerant of it is because its an inherent natural part of human nature.
Who shouldn’t be treated equally?
I'm also ok with furries, but I don't think they're so intrinsic that we need to protect fursuits and light animal roleplaying in the workplace.
apologies if something I said there was off color in terminolgoy
Result: "five autosomal loci were significantly associated with same-sex sexual behavior".
Also, this study and many others uses the term "men who have sex with men" not gay. These are two overlapping but different groups.
Plus you need yo look at evidence that sexuality is a modern construct. The Kinsey scale and attitudes to sex in other societies (where men who have sex with men are sometimes considered a third gender or where its more a matter of taste/fancy than a rigid part of identity) would help people understand actual sexuality more effectively.
What you end up with is some genetics, some epigenetics and some environmental factors creating preferences of various strengths. Those are then buried under a layer of socially acceptable behaviour. Which in turn is filtered through identifies ("I'm not gay, I just do it with my mate").
The point being humans are messy.
So you want to look at regulatory regions of the genome, promoters, and even how and when the dna folds up to inactive large regions. That’s where all the action is.
The other is just any code which affects the phenotype, including promotors etc. The SNPs mentioned in TFA are just known fairly common single-point differences, but aren't necessarily in coding DNA. Of course these are still heritable, just like coding changes.
Arguably, in our current culture, it is pretty obvious that gay people will produce less offspring than heterosexuals. However, looking on an evolutionary timescale, this culture is rather young. In tribal times, most males did not reproduce - lessening the impact of homosexuality. Maybe the higher female-to-male-gene reproduction rate is factor?
This is just rough speculation, my knowledge is really limited. But it seems plausible at first glance.
I'm generally heterosexual, but I've also had sex with a man. It's was okay, I guess, but I'd prefer women. On a scale of 0-100 my "gayness score" is probably about 10-20. A hard strong 0 or 100 is probably a lot less common than it's often portrayed: it's more of a bell curve.
One explanation I've read is that gay men are more likely to be left alone with women as they're perceived to be less threatening; giving the gay man a chance to propagate his genes through infidelity (infidelity is fairly common throughout human history). The ever-eqloquent Richard Dawkins once called this "the sneaky fucker strategy".
Something similar could also apply to women.
It's hard to be sure of these kind of things, since it's, well, pre-history, but there are some models which can explain the propagation of homosexual genes and/or behaviour.
Recently the identity option has been emphasized. Part of those is because it offers more legitimacy: if I can convince you that:
1. Gay people exist 2. I am gay
Then, my homosexual behavior is more legitimate. Without the identity, Western legal codes were able to ban homosexual behavior.
Do gay men think the same as women? Is it a spectrum?
For straight men it seems mostly tied to women’s ability to carry children, coupled with a genderless beauty evaluation (e.g. symmetry) and then some measure of femininity (which is kind of like anti-masculine maybe). Femininity is really hard to quantify but it’s definitely a “know it when you see it” kind of thing.
I think this is far from clear
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male...
Honestly i have no idea but this might be one of the last places left on the internet you can ask a question like this without getting dogpiled.
I've batted for both teams in my life and i still can't tell you.
Not sure why i'm getting a hard time from our co-commenters. I assumed this place being primarily US and Tech it would be quite liberal.
There are lots of places on the internet where asking honest questions about the gay experience is not scary and will not get you flamed. Indeed, the existence of such venues is crucial to the self-discovery of gay people — especially gay people who live in hostile environments, and who may be in great need of a kind confidant.
I imagine being gay would be a lot like that, except it would've been a boy.
> Is it dislike, fear(?) of opposite sex?
Not generally, no, just like most straight people don't dislike members of their own sex.
Anecdotally I think most of my gay friends have commented on how gross vaginas are to them. Add whatever clarifications on fluidity and spectrums that you want....
If you can't see red, then I'm going to have a tough time explaining red to you.
Why some people dress or act similar to opposite sex to appear attractive to someone of the same sex? I mean, voice gestures etc. Hm...I should not said act, it's likely their trait. Anyway, why would someone who is gay be attracted to that person rather than opposite sex. I think sexuality is quite more fluid and calling someone gay does not mean much beyond 'not straight'.
> In this study, we use the term “same-sex sexual behavior,” which is defined as having ever had sex with someone of the same sex.
Whenever I hear a news article that there is no X gene, I am completely unsurprised. The idea that a single gene would uniquely determine a particular trait, as if it were a variable in a program like "bool has_blue_eyes", seems oversimplified and unrealistic.
Sure.
Sickle-cell anaemia is one classic case, one (recessive) gene.
Huntington's disease is another, it's about a specific repeat number.
But, as you say, most complex traits (such as height) aren't like that, and involve hundreds or thousands of different genes. IIRC eye color is actually fairly simple, not one gene but much of the control in just a handful? Maybe hair color too? (But not super-sure.)
In other words: Genes that make you have sex with the opposite sex would be a huge advantage and so would be selected for.
Even insect knows what to do instinctively.
I would need VERY strong evidence to accept that it is not gentically encoded.
If we've learned anything, we should know that people will be terrible enough to want to "cure" homosexuality or detect it before birth, like trisomy 21, if it ever will become possible - and research like this will lead to that.
I get the concern for potential risk around selective abortion, IVF, etc; I was around for the "gay gene" debate in the 90s. This isn't that. This disproves that. And what they're reporting could not be used in that way.
On that note, if you haven't read Randy Shilts' And the Band Played On, I strongly recommend it. The events it describes are, I think, the single strongest influence on everything about US (at least) gay culture that's thus far followed.
In that lens, imagine a scenario where a woman is happy to be pregnant and excited about becoming a parent. Then she learns the child will be male, and she decides to abort it. There's a wide gulf between between the harm of "didn't want to be a parent" and the disappointment of "didn't want a son". It may help to imagine this with even more trivial features: "oh the baby is going to have blue eyes? never mind then...".
For something like trisomy-21, I find myself of mixed mind. On one hand, there are many things that can happen to a child through their life that could end up posing a similar impediment to the child and burden on their parent. On the other hand, since we're able to detect it so early, perhaps it is the best way to minimize harm.
It would be pretty surprising if they found a single gene though. The omnigenetic theory says that every complex trait is influenced by small contributions from many genes.
https://www.quantamagazine.org/omnigenic-model-suggests-that...
Regardless, everyone should be treated equally and with kindness. I don't think that's up for debate.
They're bimodal distributions at best. You can't just crop off the confounding valleys and call what you do with them good science.
Ironically, now we're at a point where that's flipped, and you need to be either gay or straight and can't be somewhere in the middle; but, earlier on, bisexual people could escape persecution and therefore weren't the primary focus.
It's a lot more effective to have the discussion "Dad, I like guys!" and get the father to accept that in the 1950s than it was to say "Hey dad, I like guys and gals". The father could just as easily go "You know, I think there's some good looking men out there, too" and completely miss the point.
My understanding is that most psychological traits are now thought of as polygenic, so a statement like “there is no gay gene” is really misleading, because genetics simply doesn’t work that way.
Still, that doesn't mean genetics do not play a role in determining human sexuality, binary or otherwise.
Sex is bimodal, and genetic - though there are are rare chromosomal disorders, and disorders of sexual development, these are not normal variants and shouldn’t be considered a distribution.
There’s a suggestion that gender is innate and therefore (I assume) genetic, but do we really want to recreate the once anachronistic belief that most men and women are genetically predisposed to behave in masculine and feminine ways?
(Not intended to be flame bait, but I thought someone ought to express the now rarely heard gender critical position)
I am gay, and I have been since I hit puberty. It's completely stable, a fixed personality trait my whole life. It's so... exact. That one little thing, completely inverted from a good majority of men. It's like someone flipped one little switch, that affected only that, at least as far as I can tell.
Bisexuality or pansexuality or whatever you want to call it, on the other hand, seems to fit many of the proposed origins, far better than exclusive homosexuality would. E.g., fuzzy pattern matching gone awry for finding a suitable mate, triggering a bunch of false matches. But it's not like that. It's very precise. That has always struck me as ever so strange.
I'm sure the study covers more but the title doesn't grab me.
> Some homosexually displaying males eventually paired with females, but such males were significantly slower in heterosexual pairing than males that did not display homosexually. In two extraordinary cases, same-sex pairs learned each other’s calls, an essential step in the pairing process. The frequency of such pairs was much lower than among displaying couples, significantly so for males. Finally, the frequency of homosexually displaying pairs was significantly lower than expected from random assortment of displaying birds, for both males and females. We examined possible explanations for same-sex display and its biological significance. A population sex-ratio bias in favor of males and high concentration of male sex hormones may help to explain non-reproductive homosexually displaying pairs.
citation needed
Being forced into them would be objectionable, but being forced into your family farm doesn’t mean farming itself is bad. If conversion therapy was a thing that worked and you could choose it if you wanted, it would be like any other life choice - changing career, religion, nationality, etc.
I read the parent comment as saying “I hope homosexuality isn’t learned /because/ that would legitimise conversion therapy”, but I say that would be a fine hypothetical world - it’s objecting to the wrong thing, conversion therapy isn’t inherently a bad thing, it’s only bad in worlds where it doesn’t work, like the real world.
Another way of saying it is, if homosexuality is socially determined (in the real world), why fear that would “legitimise” a conversion therapy which doesn’t work (in the real world)?
I think large sections of the gay community would disagree. Many gay people view homosexuality as a trait with intrinsic value (this is the whole point of pride).
A similar dynamic plays out in the deaf community, where there is a proven equivalent of conversion therapy, namely cochlear implants. Cochlear implants are very controversial in the deaf community. Part of this is because it's cochlear implants don't yet fully replicate normal hearing, but there are many objections to the very purpose of cochlear implants and in that sense, perfect cochlear implants would be even worse. Certain segments of the community liken cochlear implants to cultural genocide.
"Cultural genocide is the systematic destruction of traditions, values, language, and other elements which make a one group of people distinct from other groups" - having a cochlear implant does not stop someone using sign language, does not inherently change their values or force them into different traditions, and giving one person an implant they asked for is not a systematic destruction. If they do willingly want to use sign language and so on after getting an implant, the culture won't be lost. If nobody willingly wants to use sign language of their own free choice, the culture may be lost and that's better than the alternative of forcing people against their will into a state where they have no choice but to keep the culture going, for the sake of the culture. That is, hearinged people forcing cochlear implants on unconsenting deaf people would be bad, deaf people forcing deaf people to stay deaf against their will (e.g. by getting cochlear implants banned) would be bad. Medical people (hearing or deaf) offering cochlear implants, and deaf people making a case to tempt deaf people to stay deaf, and the result being a free choice for invididuals, isn't genocide. You could move the point to hearinged parents of deaf children, and say that they will never let the child experience deaf culture, but parents always have the right to act as a proxy for their young child - if deaf people can't convince the parents that deafness has value, what right do they have to take the choice away, anymore than a Christian has rights to force atheist parents to raise their child as a Christian and then let the child decide, for the sole purpose of not letting Christianity be lost?
> "Many gay people view homosexuality as a trait with intrinsic value (this is the whole point of pride)."
And nobody should be forced out of that situation unconsentingly, or discriminated against for being homosexual - regardless of whether it was nature, nurture, or free choice. Neither should people be forced to stay in that situation unconsentingly if there was another option and they wished to take it. You could say that the choice isn't free and fair in a world where there is a dominant heterosexual society which discriminates and abuses homosexuals, and that of course that would "force" (indirectly) people to opt for conversion therapy unfairly (if it worked) and without freely given consent. But I'd turn that round and say that forcing someone else to stay homosexual against their will, to increase the overall numbers in an attempt to redress the bad treatment that way to improve the chances of a better life for the forcers, is bad; if the dominant society is abusive it could be noble to fight against that, but it's valid for an individual to choose to join it instead to have an easier life. People saying "baldness should not be a problem" have a point; people taking Finasteride and having hair transplants don't have to agree with that.
And now, for the rest of your life, you view having sex with women as disgusting. Would this not be the slightest bit alarming and distressing?
So if conversion therapy actually worked, and was just a thing you could freely do or not do - like you can migrate and become a citizen of another country, or join another religion, or learn another language, or get a tattoo, or participate in consenting BSDM, or any other personal choice about your body or life, would it be automatically worse because it's conversion therapy?
On an aside, I have heard 'straight' men in prisons can have intimate relationships with other men (its not just brutal gang rapes). I can't cite a reference here though.
Sexuality is messy...
If this theory is proven correct, it wouldn't be either socialization or genes.
Some people probably do have agency over their sexuality, or respond to incentives other than gender/sex. And part of that’s probably social.
In terms of XY exclusively-gay, I think epigenetic is still the leading hypothesis and not genetic by itself. It would be interesting to learn how the genetics set-us up for epigenetic influences.
Other non-heterosexual and flexible sexualities for XX and XY seem more fluid and complicated to unpack. For example, I am unsure what proportion of lesbians are gold star and cannot be aroused at all by males, but I suspect it is low.
I changed the title earlier to the first sentence of the article because it seemed more factual and neutral.
I don't get it, isn't this the whole point of the study? The G in LGBTQ stands for "gay", did they exclude people who self-identify as gay from a study meant to find the genetic basis of being gay?
If, hypothetically, being trans inverted the expression of the gene for being gay, you'd have a harder time finding the gene until you accounted for it. By eliminating the possibility, you make it easier to find the gene you're looking for.
If you can't find the gene in the smaller pool of subjects, you weren't going to find it in the larger one. But if you did find it, you can learn how it affects everyone in a different study.
That, although always possible, seems pretty far-fetched.
> If you can't find the gene in the smaller pool of subjects, you weren't going to find it in the larger one.
Except that here the larger one includes precisely the community of people that has the highest incidence of same-sex attraction. Imagine trying to determine the influence of genetics on skin colour after having removed from your study everyone who self-identifies as black.
So they likely excluded transsexual men (biological women) who are attracted to men and vice versa.
It also says "people whose biological sex and self-identified gender did not match" which seems to include biological males who identify as women. (But maybe you're right and the article is imprecise, and what they meant is just that they excluded F to M transsexuals).
Then we could also question whether there is or not a a higher probability for gays to also initiate a gender transition- my hunch is that there is, although of course being gay doesn't per se imply a desire to transition to the opposite sex.
While there's probably a slightly higher probability, the perils and feelings that most trans persons will describe are not something that will match with the experience of someone who is gay.
Imagine you suffered serious injury to most of your body, disfiguring you and making it hard or painful for you to recognize yourself in the mirror. That's effectively what puberty was to me. As a young child, I was aware that I was different, but I was mostly okay until my body started changing in the wrong way.
I've found that most (though certainly not all) trans persons I've talked to resonate with that description. Interestingly, among transwomen in America studies have shown that roughly 60% report experiencing attraction to women, and it's only around 20% that report exclusively feeling attracted to men.
This seems like describing a launch to the ISS with the headline "No firmament".
Alternatively, some kind of meta-level mechanism to reduce competition over women in the community, ultimately improving its collective health and well-being.
I still think it's a bit unlikely that there's a meaningful connection to be had there, but I wouldn't be totally shocked if I were proven wrong.
From Wikipedia:
> The mechanism is thought to be a maternal immune response to male fetuses, whereby antibodies neutralize male Y-proteins thought to play a role in sexual differentiation during development.
The article states even interrupted pregnancies are thought to generate this response.
That said, it would be very interesting if the body did actually count and take measures to keep things even.
The reproductive system doesn't "want" anything any more than your immune system "wants" to fight viruses and invading pathogens.
Why couldn't a similar mechanism be at play here?
It doesn't require a tally, it just requires that the body stores something that correlates with number and gender of previous children. Like, say, indefinitely retaining genetic material from each of them. Which, you know, mother's bodies do:
“Not only fetal cells, but also fragments of fetal DNA can be present in the maternal circulation indefinitely after pregnancy. This finding has practical implications for non-invasive prenatal diagnoses based on maternal blood, and may be considered for possible pathophysiological correlations.”
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12107445/#:~:text=Not%20only....
You know that homosexuality it's very know to happen on many animal species ? It's not a "novel mutation"
> gay son
This is a dangerous stereotype that is equally harmful to people of any sexuality, I'd encourage you to correct it. Most of the gay folk I know personally tend towards the athletic end of the spectrum
Did you mean to imply that effeminate -- showing characteristics more associated with females than males -- was at the other end of a spectrum from athletic?
Agreed, the terminology used by the parent comment was a bit strange, but I got the idea of what they meant.
They were talking about an effeminate skinny type of a male compared to a very masculine athletic "macho man"-looking type. In terms of celebrities and purely their appearances, think of young David Bowie vs. Arnold Swarzenegger.
I guess the parent comment simply conflated athleticism with masculinity, but that's just an aspect of it, and not all kinds of athleticism are inherently "masculine" (think yoga or acrobatics or figure skating).
One would think that standing by your choices and not trying to hide then away, would be the assertive and self-confident approach. If your friends are really so fickle as to think less of you based on the TV shows you watch and the love you show for your wife, are they really worth keeping around?
My best friend died in his 20's. So, I have a cynical view on friendship.
It's very time intensive to find new friends and filter out the one's that don't make the cut. Not to mention the awkwardness that comes with breaking up with the one's that don't make the cut.
Building up a new circle of friends where I live now took some time, and was initially kicked off by reconnecting with a childhood friend. A huge positive is that we're all mid-30s to mid-40s and more mature, less concerned about outward appearances, so it feels more real and down to earth.
Just being able to be yourself in the company of others is refreshing, because you can relax and lower your guard.
Round of beers, one friend asks for a diet soda? Sure thing. Heck, I have a standing agreement with another friend that I'll bring him a soda even if he asked for a beer and I think he's had one or two too many, because he knows he has a tendency to drink a bit too much. He'll grumble about it, but because we've talked it through, he knows I'm looking out for him.
My best friend is a huge metalhead, but also loves sugary J-pop with a burning passion. And nobody thinks less of him for it. We don't believe in guilty pleasures, you like what you like.
Honestly, and I know this doesn't apply to everyone, I would rather have no friends at all if I couldn't be 100% myself around my friends :-)
Liking Jane Austen is effeminate?
Yup, sounds like a Grindr bio all right.
Because I’m pretty sure that homosexual men aren’t overall more like heterosexual women than they are like heterosexual men, at least in terms of appearance.
You could say the same thing about long-haired men. It doesn’t mean you’re implying that any other traits are more feminine, because the one trait in question is already biased female.
> By default, let’s assume that homosexual men have the same distribution of all other traits as heterosexual men
In some ways, homosexual men might very well cluster away from females, even more so than heterosexual men.
Aren't we back to what the person I was originally replying to would describe as "dangerous stereotypes"?
The point I was trying to make is that the only thing you can say about homosexual men without invoking stereotypes is that they are attracted to men. And in a statistical sense, that is a feminine characteristic.
"Women" and "Men" are words that we associate with observable characteristics. They are extremely messy, so much so that there isn't even one characteristic in all of the many dimensions that we would all agree evenly cleaves the "Men" set from the "Women" set. And yes, most observable characteristics are far more shared than not; that's why it's easier to tell a human from a cat than it is a man from a woman.
Please, stop trying to enlarge my claims. The idea that males and females form clusters that could be described as "neat", or that the distribution of any human characteristic is Guassian, are extremely large claims that should be backed up with evidence. I don't know how they even made their way into this discussion.
To restate: Male homosexuality can be described as a trait that male homosexuals share with women. If we assume the default about all other characteristics, i.e. that they are distributed in the same manner as they are in other males, then that would mean homosexual men are ever so slightly skewed female in distribution. That's it. Note that the "if" clause isn't a claim I am making, it is simply a proposition on which the argument is predicated. If it is false, the argument no longer stands. I am not making any judgement about that claim, I am only building on it in the hypothetical universe where it is true.
I do agree with the very narrow premise of your original claim:
> Isn’t “being attracted to males” a predominantly female characteristic in animals that reproduce sexually? On the “sexuality” dimension, do not gay men fall closer to the female cluster than the male cluster?
I don't, however, agree with your later claim:
> By default, let’s assume that homosexual men have the same distribution of all other traits as heterosexual men. In N-dimensional space, they are biased slightly away from dead center of the male cluster towards the female cluster because of the female bias of the attracted-to-men trait.
I would hold that this isn't true, because I would suggest that N here is extremely large, and in many of those dimensions, homosexual men are skewed away from women, even more so than heterosexual men. I do not know what those dimensions could be - perhaps something as esoteric as "Testosterone Levels", "Median Household Income", "Toxic Fathers", "Suicidal Ideation", "Substance Abuse", or "Gut Microbial Diversity". In some dimensions, homosexual men are probably hypermasculine. In N-dimensional space, humans as a whole are probably indistinguishable, let alone homosexual or heterosexual men.
I do not agree either with the claim:
> The point I was trying to make is that the only thing you can say about homosexual men without invoking stereotypes is that they are attracted to men. And in a statistical sense, that is a feminine characteristic.
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> To restate: Male homosexuality can be described as a trait that male homosexuals share with women. If we assume the default about all other characteristics, i.e. that they are distributed in the same manner as they are in other males, then that would mean homosexual men are ever so slightly skewed female in distribution. That's it. Note that the "if" clause isn't a claim I am making, it is simply a proposition on which the argument is predicated. If it is false, the argument no longer stands. I am not making any judgement about that claim, I am only building on it in the hypothetical universe where it is true.
Yes, the only thing we can say about gay men with certainty that distinguishes them from straight men without invoking sterotypes is that they are attracted to men. It does not follow, however, that they are alike in every other way. On this singular dimension, yes, male homosexuals are shifted towards females. However, the original top level comment that we're responding to had used terminology suggesting gay men == effeminate men. Your initial premise is right, but only if we regard attraction as the defining characteristic and discard everything else. If we expand that definition to N-dimensional space as you did, then no, it's very likely not true, because of all the many ways in which gay men are probably shifted away from women.
But if that were true, it must succeed sometimes. Evolution doesn't select for things that don't work. We should see an equally strong correlation with sex of offspring and birth order. We don't.
One possibility is that the effect reduces the harmful effects of sibling rivalry by making second sons more empathetic. However, this is basically a random guess — there are so many variables in biology that it could be a million other things instead.
There is a correlation in the opposite direction between sex and birth order, but that could be explained with a slight variation on the upthread hypothesis; instead of trying to bend things toward girls and sometimes failing with an effeminate boy, one could speculate that it is “trying” to bend things toward boys and sometimes succeeds incompletely, resulting in an effeminate boy.
(“Trying" in this case meaning nothing having to do with intentionality, but merely the effect of the process for which it was selected.)
Is there any reason to believe that gay men are more empathetic?
You know that a homosexual not are "effeminate males" ? Man, try to revise these stereotype that you have.
[1] https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/study-says-brains...
Edit: apparently my assumption was correct, per the commenter in question elsewhere in this thread: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26076929
I would suspect, though I haven't seen any studies, that some fertility treatment steps unintentionally have mass-sorting properties similar to the barrier diffusion Uranium enrichment technique used in the Manhattan Project.