Curious to hear a bit more. Who are these men? The non-tech jocks? There must be non-tech females left?
Are you speaking about the average looking male group who can't get tinder hookups?
Are you speaking about the average looking male group who can't get tinder hookups?
The world continuously becoming more sexually liberal also means that women are more likely to pursue these men, and so average men are looked down upon moreso than before.
I'm sure plenty of people have seen the Tinder/Bumble studies where men rated women around 50/50 attractive/unattractive, whereas women rated men 20/80. I believe this is a result of the above, and a lot more nuanced aspects of the change in culture over the last say, 30-40 years.
In my grade school all of the girls had a crush on one or two guys even the less pretty ones. No one had a chance. High school was similiar. Going to rock concerts changed that as I started to meet girls with similiar interests. Going to a concert would automatically give me a leg up because we were now part of a social circle. Later on in life I would go to a karoke bar and just the act of showing up a few times on the same day for a few weeks puts you in a social circle with others who do the same.
I don't know if things have changed all that much aside from the amount of people online. I use to meet girls from bbses / the early social media sites. The differences is they were smaller and you felt like part of a social circle.
Today I would advise to try to go to social meetups like photography in the park groups.. try to join a smaller group.
In the end the girls from my elementary school grew up and married. Everyone married similiar to them. If they are overweight so are there husbands. If they were an 8 their husbands would be an 8. If they are a 4 their husbands are a 4. They general look like each other.
My guess is the girls from your primary school will end up with someone similiar to them and so will you.
Men will find happiness in porn, paid sex and virtual sexual experiences and will find that women can't live up to those experiences and men will not be satified with regular women.
An average women's sexual peak is later in life and they will not be as satified with virtual sex in the same way.
There will be a need for younger men from an older women group that could bridge the divide.
If you are young and want casual sex go on courage life not tinder for better results.
Definitely becoming a major issue now. I think they're generally gross and it's obvious why they're single, but there has to be an underlying reason for the trend.