a) “Why do we use DRAM instead of SRAM?” is a perfectly valid question from a programmer that is worth a paragraph of detail, including the capacitor discharge curves. It is not like this is a major focus of the article! It’s just a small detail in the overview of the hardware. Seems very strange to be so upset by this.
b) If you ever write software for something that isn’t a desktop or server (eg a printer, a robot, some new shiny tech) then the hardware details of RAM are absolutely relevant and can’t be abstracted away by a nice alloc API. I can understand not wanting to focus on areas like this (devices are not my cup of tea) but I can’t understand deciding it’s ipso facto irrelevant because you’re a programmer.
Differences between types of memory don't just matter when you're picking what hardware to purchase. It also matters greatly when trying to understand why your code achieves a certain level of performance. Understanding the characteristics of your memory matters even if you're targeting a single fixed hardware platform that you can profile your code on.
Not understanding how the system works means that sometimes you'll have to settle for not being able to use the full performance of your hardware, and that your performance constraints will in practice be rather inscrutable and often unpredictable.
The negation of “everyone should know this” is not “no one should know this”. I can understand that someone would protest to a claim about how “everyone should X” by giving a blanket statement like “no I shouldn’t”, but I interpret that as hyperboly in this case.
Also, should know and need to know are slightly different, no?
All of this boils down to knowing things because you cannot look some thing up that you don't know exists, like algorithms.
Being upset is one of the way we signal that social mores have been violated. Making statements about how it would be good if everyone behaves is another.
Rejecting them and saying 'not my problem' is part of the problem.