It’s a shame for both sides of the shameful misinterpreted history that people don’t, yes, acknowledge that native peoples had real wars and conflicts, and also that colonizers instigated and coordinated other conflicts that were either less likely or more brutal or both than they would’ve been otherwise.
I'm not saying that's definitely how I interpret it, but it's definitely a reasonable possibility. And I guess I wish more people here would at least try to read others' comments more charitably. At worst, your assumptions are right but you gave an opportunity for the other person to be better understood and for your own frustration level to pause before rising.
The Europeans killed 90 to 95% of indigenous people in the Americas, killing tens or hundreds of millions.
Yes, there was obviously war and conflict between indigenous communities. But it was not anywhere close to the scale the Europeans did to others.