IIRC the ECJ ruling is not de-indexing - the requirement is to remove the link from certain search results, ie. when you google for "flowerlad" but not when you google for "greggman hacker news conservation".
I don't see the distinction. I want people to be able to search for "greggman's conversation with flowerlad". Flowerlad should have no say over what I can share and how others can find it.