Character and conviction is not the issue at all. It's more technical ability and extra-logical/rational thinking that I'm concerned about.
Plus, it's one thing to be a Jesus lover. It's completely another to wear it extra-proudly on your technical website/profile.
My biggest suggestion to you is to have some actual conversations with a variety of Christians. I'm willing to bet you have some serious misconceptions about their beliefs.
Yes, it is exactly like the marriage problem and some people still don't divorce.