Those have a minimum thresholds. The Dutch company only has to charge destination country tax if their sales to Germany exceed 100000 EUR per year or 35000 EUR per year to France. And non-EU companies are not required to charge anything.

https://ec.europa.eu/taxation_customs/sites/taxation/files/r... column "Threshold for application of the special scheme for distance selling"

The UK import VAT has no minimum threshold, and unlike EU VAT the requirement applies to all countries.