I really think the Asian grind mentality is a product of thousands of years of history. There were different pressures in East Asia.
White nations historically maintained much lower population densities, leaving things less competitive. Whites have pursued more capital intensive, less labor intensive ways to earn a living (e.g. massive thousand year old stone barns for dairy cows and cheese making).
So asians come here to this white nation with the built-in grind mentality. It doesn't work.
What I don't understand is why our overlords are so hell bent on turning this nation in to an overpopulated, hyper-competitive place where everyone has to grind. Stop letting people in, please.