> my ~40 hours of interview-specific coding prep.
Where did you find time to do 40 hours of prep, and how many weeks did it take?
Where did you find time to do 40 hours of prep, and how many weeks did it take?
Most people I know spend nights and weekends prepping for at least a month to a quarter.
Sure - but if you want to live in silicon valley, you will have to join FAANG or have startup riches (much more difficult) to have a "normal" life that you'd have elsewhere. You're not going to own a house in good school district with startup income.
If you live in BFE then whatever - maybe the 100%+ raise in income wouldn't affect your lifestyle. For most of us in SV, it has a very substantial increase in quality of life.