And as for coughing etiquette, I can’t remember when I last heard somebody cough or sneeze when out. I’m sure it happens (after all, it’s sometimes unavoidable) but it has definitely gotten much rarer. In sum, it’s a very strong claim to say that “masks are a pointless waste of time”, and almost certainly wildly off the mark.
^1 Of course hand-washing should be practiced nevertheless, because it also prevents other infections, notably GI infections. But paradoxically excessive hand-washing also has negative health implications: soap and alcohol destroy the skin’s protective layer and dry it out, and the mechanical action of hand-washing exacerbates this through abrasion, which causes micro-lesions, irritation, and increases the risk of catching infections. And unlike for mask-wearing we actually have very good evidence for this. We don’t yet know the exact consequences, but the NHS has noticed a strong uptick in dermatological conditions since the beginning of the pandemic, some of which are serious. (Here’s a publication on this: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7102542/)