I think the best thing we could do if we went to pricing like that is to have a meter next to your thermostat that tells you have much you're paying for electricity
right now. That would make the mental equation much less abstract and immediate, further push people towards the behaviors you mention. But on those specifics:
1) Unfortunately most workplaces don't have a place to charge your car. That should change
2) Laundry is problematic for households with 2 adults & a few kids. Multiple loads can't be automated that way, so not running laundry after 5:00 pm isn't an option many days.
3) You can can have a high-efficiency on-demand hot water heater with an external tank to hold X amount of hot water for use throughout the day. Heating your home is more problematic: the hot water loses about 5-10 degrees per cycle through the house & back to the boiler, so you'd still need to run the unit on cold nights.
4) Fridge/Freezer: I like the idea, but it could be a food safety risk... I'd rather see units designed with that particular use case & required insulation in mind to ensure food was always kept at safe temperatures, even if it meant paying the .30 for short spurts over night.
5) AC: I wish everyone would do this sort of thing already with thermostat timers. If you have a small apartment with window units, timers at outlets should automatically shutoff living/dining units. Bedroom should have a high temp (though comfortable enough to sleep through) set for the cutoff since you're sleeping anyway. If your home needs more than 3 window units, it's generally more energy efficient to get central air (though upfront costs are high) and you can get multi-zones to only cool the areas needed, further improving efficiency.
Basically, I think a lot of the things we'd do to deal with variable pricing could already be done to reduce usage.