i dont whether people will agree to this ... because you're lucky enough to get help of $100K ...you must join MIT - this is once in a life time opportunity ... at least you won't regret later in your life ... once you start your program you may work part-time (on or off campus) ... also because your case is genuine you can also ask for donation thru sharing your technical knowledge thru blog or social media or any other method (i'm sure you'll succeed) --- good luck.