What a horrible world this sort of thinking wants to build. Nearly everything in civilization balances safety with freedom. She wants to hold a grudge against large swaths of the population because she believes them not deserving of the freedom to make decisions about their own behavior.
Do we want to live in a society where
...every person driving a vehicle shares the blame for creating an environment where pedestrians get hit and killed?
...every person who refuses to wear a mask around people shares the blame for people dying from the flu?
...every person who engages in casual sex shares the blame for spreading deadly STIs like HIV?
...every person who might contribute to the depression of a child shares the blame for suicide?
COVID is a natural disaster, just like an earthquake or a hurricane. Lashing out at your political opponents helps no one, and no, it's not Trump's fault or his supporters' fault your family member died.