Your choice is between 3% and 0.15% - not 95% and 97%.
I don't think this individualistic way of looking at things is sound, though. First 3% mortality sounds way high - even given health system collapse (basically turning every ventilator survivor into a dead patient).
And on the other hand, mostly the old and those with pre-conditions will die - we alltake the vaccine to protect everyone. That way we might avoid a population wide 0.5% (or thereabouts) mortality rate.
That would still 1 in 200 - most people would likely know a handful of people dying from the disease if there's no mitigation.