I hear you, Ableton actually has pretty great tutorials in the program itself that can help to learn the software as well.
In the world of programming languages there's a lot of books called "cookbooks" - recipes for how to do things that many programmers will need to do. Say "C# CookBook". Is there such a book or resource for Ableton? If not maybe there should be. It might be a best seller :-)
There is. The reference manual:
https://www.ableton.com/en/manual/welcome-to-live/
It is incredibly well-written. Possibly my favorite piece of technical writing ever, and am myself a technical author.
I used one of these a few years ago for an earlier version. Was helpful. I suspect this one would be just the same.
Just to commiserate, I feel the same way about the pedal steel guitar :D