How many Americans let alone people in other countries know where San Jose for example is and roughly how big it is?
So as you point out it’s not complexity that matters it’s a more complex and hard to quantify equation that includes complexity and several other terms. Further, societal collapse currently looks very different. Multiple countries experienced a collapse after a civil war, but they don’t fall in the same way Rome or even older civilizations did.
Not to mention complexity is peripheral to stability even in something relatively simple compared to a nation like electrical grids. They both gain resilence from interconnection and be taken down by them in chain reactions and there is a difference in complexity from say adding in a distributed series for reserve power, redundant power lines and say playing Enron with their "death star" fraud. It is kind of a silly metric to try to play oracle with as a proxy.