In those aspects of UX, voice interfaces have the same drawbacks as console apps when compared to a good GUI.
Also, they have to work within the "bandwidth bottleneck" of audio - just imagine a phone system that tells you all the options you have, "Press 1 for something, Press 2 for another thing..." - they are so annoying because they are slow and inherently linear; a GUI can show the same options all at once, and you can read it much faster than listen to them.
So NLP as such is not dramatically more user-friendly unless it is at the "do what I mean" level which likely requries full human-level general artificial intelligence; before that it's just a voice equivalent of a console app, sharing all the problems of discoverability and needing to remember what the system can do and how should it be invoked.