To be clear, I am not saying don't use LIDAR. I was calling out OP's statement that they would feel unsafe in a car without LIDAR since it was unable to detect an unsafe condition that they detected themselves without LIDAR.
Are you saying you were driving on autopilot in a Tesla and it didn't spot it or you were driving a normal car and couldn't spot it?
If the later, you're assertion that because it was hard for you to see a computer wouldn't be able to is pretty strange. There's plenty of sensors that can spot a stationary object in the way even though it's camouflaged to humans, IR being the most obvious.
How close did you come to colliding with it before your eyes and brain prevented this?
Google is not your friend, but it searches this just fine.