> This applies for ISS even more (it is huge and thus a lot of drag)
Wouldn't drag be proportional to the surface area, hence the square of the length scale, whereas orbital energy is proportional to the mass, which is cubic in the length scale. I would expect the orbital lifetime to be roughly proportional to their quotient and thus for larger objects to stay up longer.
On the other hand, ISS has a lot more empty (well, air-filled) space inside of it, so it might be a lot less dense than a SpaceX satellite.