I earn comparable salary. I paid ~20k in taxes last year. There is a ton you can deduct. And the tax rate is progressive.
And yes, the tax rate is progressive, but the average rate is still around 9% at that income level (~36k). Marginal rate is just over 11%.
My overall point is just that almost all of the cost of living delta in CA is from taxes and housing. Didn't mean to get too deep into the numbers.