All in all it’s different than it was 30 years ago, and more expensive to do relatively mundane tasks with your kids.
All in all it’s different than it was 30 years ago, and more expensive to do relatively mundane tasks with your kids.
Young child seats are nasty hateful things that skin your knuckles as you thread them in, and you too bang your head on the roof as you do it so regularly that it almost qualifies as slapstick
For me, the first few months were the seat that just clicked out of the pram frame and into the car base [0]
After that was a rear facing seat that just sat in the car. Occasionally we'd move to another car, but that's just "unclick, move, click" [1]
Then it was forward facing seats which the kids put their seatbelts on just like adults [2]
What type of seats are you on about?
[0] https://www.pramworld.co.uk/maxi-cosi-easyfix-base-for-cabri... (or similar)
[1] https://www.kids-room.com/en/britax-roemer-reboard-child-car...
[2] https://www.britax-romer.co.uk/car-seats/highback-boosters/d...
I 100% empathize with the person you replied to, and found your comment to be a bit dismissive in the "well I don't have a problem" fashion.
I think the big difference in perspective is whether you just leave the car seat in the car or take it out for every trip. I had a similar discussion on Facebook where I was like "Why does it matter how heavy the car seat is? It just stays in the car?" and then found out that a lot of people detach the carseats and lug them up to the house and back down every time they take a trip.
There's an element of privilege in being able to afford a complete set of car seats for each car you drive, but it totals about $300/kid (less for infants - many infant seats have a clickable base that's ~$100). If you can afford it I would highly recommend it - paying $300 to avoid daily skinned knuckles & schlepping 20-30 lbs. around is often well worth it.
There's more of an element of privilige for regularly being able to drive more than 1 car (or indeed for being able to drive a car anyway)
We have one child under two and I reckon it's probably cost a good (working) day of time in total, which quickly adds up when multiplied across the population. This should at least factor into the discussion when considering what the law should be.
These things are expensive and lower income people often have to make due. Expiration dates / enforcement (if such a thing) add one more thing lower income families are forced to break the rules on.
IMHO seats are not expensive. We've got one of the best one and spread over 4.5 years it's half of what nappies cost.
I wonder what the dollars:life cutoff value is across various policies, using (marginal safety improvement:the economic costs) to calculate it.