eBay’s Cockroach Cult: The Story of a Stalking Scandal
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Mr. Wymer has a new job, as the chief executive of the Boys & Girls Clubs of Silicon Valley. The chair of the board said the nonprofit was “aware” of what happened at eBay, but believes Mr. Wymer is “a leader with integrity” and was the unanimous choice for the job.
I'm uncomfortable with the way that "cancellation" can destroy people's careers without a proper trial, but after reading the article I'm also disgusted that these two are able to continue their careers without apparent repercussion.
Is the problem that I'm trusting the article without allowing the two to defend themselves? Is it better to trust the judicial system is sufficient? Or are extra-judicial "mob style" punishments actually a good thing in cases like this?
[1] The parent comment mentioned "being protected by their powerful friends and expensive lawyers", so I wouldn't consider someone to be "in power" just because they're high on the totem pole within a small organization.
[2] https://twitter.com/SoOppressed/status/1282404647160942598
Brendan Eich disagrees.
https://twitter.com/brendaneich/status/1217512049716035584?l...
"In 2014-15, I could not get funding or a job, went outside valley to found Brave, took big pay cut & still-substantial long-term risk."
If people just thought stupid shit but didn’t act or vote or spend money on it, it’d not be of consequence. Problem is, few people do that. They want their beliefs to be implemented. If they think gays aren’t worthy of being treated as equals then they’re probably gonna act on it.
I rather appreciate that you read and responded to my comment and I don’t want any thing to come across as untoward
And this is the cancel culture we're all supposed to be worried about, really?
What would have been, in your estimation, the appropriate consequence for working to deny marriage rights to gay people in California? Please don't say "nothing," i.e. no consequence.
Probably not to donate to causes you believe in six years before you receive a promotion at the organization you've founded and helped lead for a decade and a half?
Pretending the victim wasn't harmed and then asking him "what he learned" and "what his regrets are" is pretty malicious.
Broken down, its like this:
I'm asking what he learned: What was the take away form the situation? Is there something of value from what happened that can be shared that is worthwhile? If it comes across as implied as anything else, then I did a poor job at framing, but the question in the literal is asking nothing more than that.
My second question is simply, do you regret the experience? Do you have regrets surrounding the situation? An answer of "I don't regret anything about that situation" is another way to answer the same question.
I wasn't setting a trap, I was hoping to use the fact the person in question was actually commenting to get more information about the experience from a different source.
I don't think that's unreasonable at all.
I'm doing my absolute best to leave my own personal feelings out of it as well, which is why I used the words I did, actually, I felt they were far more along the lines of matter of fact than anything else.
Granted, I will concede we lose some of the human element in all this when talking over a text forum, so maybe this isn't obvious to others, however the questions were meant to elicit an honest response, not a defensive one.
Edit: I'll go on the record (now seeing I got an answer)
I think this narrative about "cancellation culture" is somewhat ridiculous. Its just an outgrowth of everyone being outraged in public forums now (Twitter, Facebook etc). Inevitable and very human, since any form of mass media was widely consumed (Tim Wu wrote a great book about mass media called The Master Switch which covers this very well). I don't think its a "problem" like some people make it out to be.
Secondly no, I don't think he was harmed, Brave is a successful product, and having to go outside the valley to raise money isn't "canceling" somebody. You still have a business, you still are CEO of that business, and its a successful business. In fact, I know since all this with Mozilla he's been interviewed in positive lights for Brave specifically. This isn't exactly following the guys career.
I know I'll likely take some flak for this, but I also don't disagree with what happened either. Actions have consequences, and the more publicly visible you are the more severe those consequences will be. A CEO that doesn't stand for the companies public values and missions isn't going to be kept on as CEO. In Mozilla's case, social equality is important enough that it affects the boardroom.
I don’t mean it as being malicious. Doesn’t mean I don’t have a different point of view on what happened but that is separate from my goal of becoming more informed
Now, most people will be fine with those things up to some point, but if you want to minimize risk you avoid those sorts of activities. And you may give up benefits if you don't do some of those things as well.
The way I see this:
1. He spent $1000 of his own money on something. It was a legal transaction. (Some people spend that on car stuff, others spend this on computer parts, and others spend this on their addiction to anime). Others, in other countries spend money in ways the US deems "immoral."
2. Other people tried to take what he spent it on and then apply this on his performance and tried to associate that action with "how the work place may be" (Is there evidence that he treated gay married individuals differently?)
He did have an affect from this. (All the details aren't clear.. also I don't think they're important for this arguement from this). What is your stance on punishing him for doing #1 and #2?
I ask about regrets, because people have them, another valid answer would simply be that they do not regret anything about the situation. Sometimes, when answering the first question, they never get around to talking about this part, which can be equally if not more so valuable.
I don't know how I could phrased this - and given the comment window, for visibility sake - any other way. They're two questions that I genuinely didn't intend to be "charged". I ask the same exact questions at the end of our sprints!
Of course, the human element can be missing a little in a text forum, but I didn't want to accidentally word things in a way that would make someone defensive either, as I couldn't come up with a good way of wording things without introducing my own personal biases and opinions on the matter, which wouldn't have been a way to approach this to get someone to answer objectively (where objective means non defensive and in their own words and thoughts)
First really consider the ask, on its face value, and consider you can always answer the question in the negative, if thats how you really feel.
Thats what I was going for.
The way your comment was phrased, combined with your dismissiveness of Eich's departure from Mozilla in the comment's predecessor caused myself, and seemingly the preponderance of your respondants to read it in the tone of a kintergarten teacher asking a child if he'd learned his lesson, and to respond as such.
As for larger targets, J. K. Rowling is a billionaire and is being hit by cancel culture on-and-off. Seems to be weathering the storm but the attempt is being made.
There’s no shortage of people who will rally behind someone whose been “cancelled” without any attention to the particulars. Knowing this, you can go out of your way to be cruel or obnoxious, and then turn around an play the victim to yet another mob, happy to indulge your ploy.
While some may technically be employees, most were also executive producers and quite powerful in their own right.
Also, your source there isn't really valid because the author says at the beginning he is specifically calling out examples of regular people getting cancelled and rather than the rich and powerful.
Side note: JFC I hate Google Amp. I'm preserving the link out of disgust.
I guess that’s just kind of what we do when we wield our protest powers. I wonder if a sensible measured reaction would be met more openly (although maybe not even possible to do).
I also don't think public opinion matters when it comes to mob justice. It's background noise. The conversation is between the mob and those in power. If the mob frightens them enough then changes will be made. What those outside the mob think is irrelevant unless they care enough to form their own mob.
Plenty of the same people who rail against SJWs and leftists cancelling people would have no problems with cancelling Bill Maher, the Dixie Chicks or Colin Kaepernick.
just like with any weapon:
- some will call it 'great equalizer'. Meaning that a victim no matter how small and physically weak, can still fight off a number of aggressors
- some will call it a tool of death making, that belongs to the hands of military (in the case of cancel culture, it would be equivalent to saying that this tool belongs government )
Point is, just like usage of any weapon, the morality and legality of economic persecution depends on:
- what / who is it used for
- amount of collateral damage
- who used it
- were there other means, was it legal
- the manipulative power of the legal team defending the use
One thing we can sure of, any new weapon gets adapted by all sides of a conflict.
The case of misuse of this weapon, in my view, was against Brendan Eich [1]
[1] https://www.forbes.com/sites/tonybradley/2014/04/05/backlash...
One problem is that what is going to completely blow up is at least somewhat unpredictable. And, especially if an individual is low level/status (unlike Eich), many companies are going to take the path of least resistance and "kill them all and let God sort them out" so to speak.
Which of course given that "blow up" is pretty much defined by social media footprint means that they'll also have whatever happened probably dog them is search results for a long time.
The problem with that line of thinking is how "those in power" is defined more and more broadly and has now evolved to a point where who you are is more important than what you did.
So now most people who gets cancelled do not tend to be the Harvey Weinstein but one of those "racist Karens" videos where the context have been cut off and the people are obviously in the early onset of dementia or college kids making offensive jokes on Twitter.
> So you get a mob together where no one person is an easy target for having their life destroyed and ignore the justice system which can be easily bent with money/connections.
This is double edged knife since mobs and thugs can be bought too. There is a reason why all modern nations give the state the legal monopoly on violence.
> It's a logical response to the power structure in place.
Correction, it is an emotional response. Mobs are never "logical".
Let's see who else is on that board...
Eddie Garcia - Chief of Police - San Jose Police Department
There's a rough guide to what that means here: https://nhsproviders.org/fit-and-proper-persons-regulations-...
In my opinion, companies need to start being more selective about who they appoint. Directors will say they need to be paid so much because they bare a huge amount of responsibility, so it seems fair enough to remove that responsibility for poor behaviours.
In this case, if the emails The NY Times really exist, there was a conspiracy to commit a long series of crimes to harass critics of EBay.
If for some legal technicality these men cannot be prosecuted, a socially enforced penalty seems appropriate.
if you still believe in the values of liberalism, you have to consider methods and goals separately. while I might not always agree with the goals, I can't really fault the method. even if you do think cancel culture is terrible, how would you stop it? you can't make it illegal for people to take their business elsewhere.
The police reaction seems quite competent.
The non startling part, the higher ups moved on and are fine while the low level contractors are in trouble.
This team was an absolute joke. Read the criminal complaint, then imagine they had any (or all) of the following, which are all for sale:
* Real-time location from your cell provider
* Real-time AirBnB booking
* Real-time purchases from credit card companies
* Real-time browsing records from your mobile ISP, home ISP, and behavioral advertising networks
* Your complete prescription history from your pharmacy
You are claiming that if rmrfstar can't do it, it doesn't exist.
If a given forum commenter does not know how to buy someone's cell-tower location does not mean that an experienced practitioner could not, etc. for the other data.
Then perhaps the commentator shouldn't leave comments about things they know nothing about.
They were challenged and have not even supplied any evidence.
I don't know how to buy 1000 random credit cards but if someone payed me to I could quickly find out.
> Real-time AirBnB booking
I doubt this is even close to true.
And the concept a different random person magically knows because they are in the news is logically inconsistent.
I don't understand why you have to other me into a FUDdy opponent here, I did as best as I could to incentivize and create a situation where you gained heavily from simply explaining your claims.
Your own comment history includes a number of instances where you either minimize or deny the seriousness of surveillance capitalism. You are spreading FUD, and I'm calling that out.
Moreover, your "offer" is one of the most degrading and distasteful rhetorical techniques for asserting certainty that I've ever seen. There is no difference between your "offer" and Mitt Romney's wager in the 2011 presidential debate. This technique convinces no-one, but carries the odious implication that the person you are speaking to is for sale.
What you were offered was a little different and better for you but the same idea.
It forces you to actually think about your claim and work out how true it really is.
I wouldn't expect you to actually take them up on the $ but I'd expect a screen shot you took of where you could do one of those things you claim. But not even a link to crappy media was given and you agreeed the person willing to do the work was spreading FUD.
There are documented examples of each in my comment history.
Maybe you want to spread uncertainty so that some fraction of people continue believing these capabilities aren't out there (and extremely common among the moneyed classes)?
Maybe you want to continue your own cognitive dissonance?
Am I mistaken in thinking how utterly bizarre it is for an online auction site to run some CIA style intelligence unit? Sounds like you would only ever find a bunch of deranged nutjobs running that kind of operation. I mean, their idea of a geopolitical threat was a website run by a couple in the suburbs?
Companies have long employed internal and external private security forces to silence their critics and threats to them. The Pinkertons have been doing this in the US since the 1850s, for example, which predates almost of every form of state intelligence services.
On the other, consider that money is power and that those in control of the assets of, say, eBay would want to use that power at their discretion.
> Wild. I'm like 99% positive I know the couple and the newsletter they targeted, because I used to work for an ecommerce company that also came under fire from said couple semi-frequently. Of course, like adults, we just rolled our eyes a little bit when it was particularly over-the-top and tried to use our rational heads to determine whether the criticism was warranted or not. Truthfully, I think they kept us in check and I'm glad they exist.
> If we had done anything even close to this, we would've been fired immediately. To be even more blunt, I think I would've been fired for interacting with them AT ALL, even just a strongly-worded email.
The article also hints of a Bay Area police department where insurers were willing to falsify evidence to help eBay. I wish they named that department. I know they're mostly in San Jose, but I’d love to confirm my suspicions about the Sunnyvale police department.
On the other hand, there's the Kerr-McGee corporation (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karen_Silkwood), Monsanto (https://www.theguardian.com/business/2019/aug/07/monsanto-fu...), and Bloomberg LP (https://www.npr.org/2020/04/14/828565428/bloomberg-news-kill...).
Corporate investigations is an industry, too. (https://www.aegis.com/investigations/corporate-investigation...)
After almost getting spotted once they came back and the victims managed to get a photo of their tag.
Without that the whole thing would probably be dismissed by people as a crazy conspiracy theory.
Well that's pretty disgusting.
Pretty boring pictures of two people.
Seems like it's your imagination. Those look like pretty normal photos to me.
It’s not always intentional, but it’s pretty obvious sometimes.