I remember when everyone said remote work as the default was impossible but then it happened and now it's as if it was the same and rational option all the time...
Not everyone gets to work with purely digital products.
But, yes, if you live in SV only because some large tech company pays you a bunch of money to live there and they want you to stay in a radius that lets you come in once or twice a week, you don't have the option of moving anywhere you want. (Though you may have the option of moving somewhere that's OK for a once-a-week drive but not daily.)