Personally, I’ve taken 10,000IU daily for years with only positive effects (also Some K2 and Mg - they likely work in tandem). Deva Boone’s blog describes a case where 5000 IU /daily over years was too much for one of her patients. Do your own research.
There also reason to believe it should be take early in the day (say before 10am), as vitamin D is a derivative of sunlight (among others) and taking it in the evening/night seems to mess the body’s internal clock. (Google “gwern vitamin D” for more)
So definitely easy to "overdose" on vitamin D and as you point out - the potential side effects are not pleasant.
Huhm, I have multivitamins that say "Vitamin D" with no hint as to which type. Any idea which it's likely to be?
If it's hard to get D2 these days, that's much better.
If you want to take much larger doses of some vitamin, say 5000 IU a day of D, it would probably not be a good idea to do it via multivitamins because you would then be getting large doses of many other vitamins and minerals. At the very least you'd have to do a lot more research to make sure all of them are safe in larger doses.
[1] Just because you an adult doesn't mean you have to settle for the bland or worse taste of "adult" multivitamins. We are allowed to take flavorful children's vitamins too.
Look for a vitamin section, there's probably effervescent soluble tablets in tubes, swallowable capsules in tubs, and swallowable gummy things marketed towards children in tubs.
'Multivitamins' also may or may not include it, check the back.
> Adequate amounts of vitamin D can be produced with moderate sun exposure to the face, arms and legs (for those with the least melanin), averaging 5–30 minutes twice per week, or approximately 25% of the time for minimal sunburn.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitamin_D#Synthesis_in_the_ski...