Most of what you've described is just peer pressure. The only reason I know that is that I shared this exact opinion until I said "this is stupid" and started doing things my own way (to much success and peace).
I disagree. If you know typescript, it's still quite a leap to be able to code with angular, and debug weird stuff where you stare at a blank page, and the back trace in the dev tools include not even a single line of code you wrote.
Also, the language isn't really enough. You need to be familiar with the tooling (npm/yarn, babel, whatever) to use most libraries; so unless you do everything from scratch, you have to deal at least with the churn of the toolchain.
Class lifecycles being replaced by hooks is a radical but much needed change. Learning it isn't complicated and it will enable you to venture on as everything around you sheds the class based component approach. Swiftui, Vue, Svelte and ofc React are just the beginning.
ES6 -- 2015
jQuery -- 2006
React -- 2013
React Native -- 2015
Redux -- 2015
VueJS -- 2013
6to5 (now Babel) -- 2015
Webpack -- 2012
ESLint -- 2013
jslint -- 2002
ExpressJS -- 2010
Lodash -- 2012
UnderscoreJS (basically the same API as Lodash) -- 2009
D3 -- 2011
Blockly -- 2012
Node Red -- 2013?? (I'm not sure when IBM first released the project)
Bootstrap -- 2011
PDF.js -- 2011
WinJS -- 2012
SocketIO -- 2012
ThreeJS -- 2010
dotenv -- 2015
momentJS -- 2011
node-sass -- 2012
Winston -- 2014
yargs -- 2011
Modernizr -- 2009
Jasmine -- 2010
Mocha -- 2011
Jest -- 2015
All of these are at least 5 year old and most are 8-9 years old. Look over the most downloaded npm packages and you'll find this to be generally true for all the top packages.
angular -- 2016
That's an example where, when you jumped on the bandwagon at the height of the hype, you were thrown into a backwards incompatible rewrite pretty quickly.
And while npm has been around for quite some time, my outsider impression is that was, for some time, basically discouraged from use, because yarn was so much better.
Compare that to Ruby on Rails -- 2004, Catalyst (Perl) -- 2005, Django (Python) 2003.
Time moves slower in enterprises, with upgrade cycles more on the scale of 3 to 10 years.
Yarn solved some npm issues they refused to tackle, but npm got motivated and has now solved most of them. Meanwhile, yarn 2's release has been a disaster and has seemingly resulted in most people (myself included) moving back to npm.
I've done Rails and Django work. Rails in particular took years to migrate to the next version. I'd add that Rails has seen 6 versions in 16 years which gives around 1 major breaking upgrade every 3 years (in truth, there's been about 1 major change per year as point releases are pretty big). Likewise, wikipedia gives almost 20 major django updates (I haven't used it in several years, but point updates used to have a very big risk of breaking the project I was working on).
Be that as it may, Angular 2 meant nobody was willing to commit to any fixed time span to support Angular.js, so it basically forced everybody to migrate off of Angular.js, introducing the toil and churn we were discussing.
It's great for online educators and others who monetize devs though..
The JS ecosystem almost seems like it's self promotional, where the monetization opportunities result in a higher self marketing activity of individuals on platforms like Twitter, which of course builds up hype and draws more people into it.