They have technology to solve the sleep temperature thing now. I don’t want to shill, but a quick search will find you some options. I finally picked one up during this California heat wave without AC and it’s a godsend.
My comment on temperature was a tongue-in-cheek way of saying that one might actually have to make some long-term compromises.
(In fact, I am now better able to sleep in a warmer room that I would have liked when I was younger)