The benefits of mmaping and in general POSIX filesystem atomic properties are quick implementation, where you don't have to worry about buffer management. The filesystem and disk block remapping layer (in SSD or even HDDs now) are radically more efficient when data are given to them in contiguous large chunks. This is difficult to control with mmap where the OS may write out pages at its whim. However, even using advanced Linux system calls like mremap and fallocate, which try to improve the complexity of changing mappings and layout in the filesystem, eventually this lack of control over buffers will bite you.
And then when you look at it, the kernel (with help from the processor TLB) has to maintain complex data-structures to represent the mappings and their dirty/clean states. Accessing memory is not O(1) even when it is in RAM. Making something better tuned to a database than the kernel page management is a significant hurdle but that's where there are opportunities.