But what you're saying sounds a lot like many proponents of various flavors of NoSQL, Eventual Consistency, etc. I.e., it sounds like you are saying that lots of people have been using it for a long time, and it's just good enough. The actual correctness isn't really that big a deal.
I might be crossing domain boundaries here and thinking up stuff that really doesn't matter. I mean, bloom filters have a known challenge. No one was ever supposed to use them except for statistical purposes anyway, and with a known error rate, it's fine to add into your models.
But there's also something that feels a little weird about your point. It sounds like you're saying it's good enough for X, Y, and Z use cases; therefore it doesn't really matter how technically wrong it is.
But again, I could be really off.