What kind of (lower level) surrogate metrics would you be interested in that could translate to '3am phone calls' when comparing messaging systems?
The page: https://pulsar.apache.org/powered-by/ suggests there's quite some number of corporate users who are happy to confirm they use this suite. I don't know how many of those you've heard of, though.
I suspect many private & government agencies around the world would decline to formally attach their name to any list like this, lest it be (mis)interpreted as an endorsement.