I cannot believe you went ad hominem and wrote all that to justify making up a definition for ad hominem because you're not happy with the dictionary definition.

Be well, sir. I'll try to digest later, not in the mood when it starts off with "ah HA my interlocutor is being intentionally obtuse, that explains why they believe in dictionaries! If I just tell them that, I'm sure it'll be convincing!"

Edit: Alas, it appears I can no longer read it, got flagged. Must have been even worse than the bit I did read :/