Everyone says things like "You don't need a graphdb" because their default assumption is that there is a cost relative to rdbms, that's the bias of knowing rdbms. The "you don't need X" is one of the most common tropes, I read those words roughly every day on HN.
As a user of a graph database I'm quite pleased with the experience. I can model things extremely naturally, and relationships are dead simple to express.
Did I need a graph database? No, obviously, I could have used any database, but a graph matched my requirements.