So, the LGBT people you talk to on HN are, in general, likely to be middle-class, and educated, and thus somewhat less likely to be facing the very worst stuff. However, yeah, most LGBT people will face at least some issues in their lives that straights don't have to deal with.

> For some reason though, we have to go over and over this mind numbing stream of preaching and virtue signaling every week

I think you're seeing what you want to see.

> I mean, what do you people want in the end?

To be treated as people, basically.

> Do I have to spend the rest of my life proving that I do not care about you at all?

You can do what you like. You seem to be taking this bizarrely personally.