If this is true, like if you use your phone as an alarm clock, you’re screwing yourself.
BJ Fogg’s book Tiny Habits walks through this exact example, and spoiler: it’s hopeless unless you physically separate from your phone. The only levers you have to manipulate your behavior are prompt, ability, and motivation.
Your phone prompts you reliably, it’s easy to stay in bed and easy to look at social because your notifications are right there, just move one finger, and you’re motivated at a visceral level to look at social because of that dopamine hit.
The only solution he provides is removing the prompt. Get an old style alarm clock and put your phone in the other room at night.
I also don't have any notifications on from social media. Texts, important email, and important slack. Almost nothing else, mostly stuff that I need to go clean up and turn off the notification permissions anyways.
But I totally get your point. Its right there and accessible. I woke up early today, rather than going back to sleep for another hour spent it on the phone for some reason. Definitely have some work tonight to try and figure out some better habits.
It is an amazing source of information, but much of it is daily drama that is a form of entertainment -- a modern Jerry Springer.
These tweets and videos serve as a conversational currency of sorts. Not sure it's worth it.