> For example, a man can wake up one day saying to himself, "Damn, I feel like a woman". If I don't accept that he is, if only for a fleeting moment, a woman, than I'm labeled a bigot.

This comes across as a caricature of a serious issue.

For what it is worth, whether I agree or disagree with you (or anyone), I strive not to mischaracterize your concerns.

I would like to ask a favor. Please read [1] and come back here afterward. Try rephrasing your comment. I hope you are capable of making a good faith attempt at understanding sex (at birth), gender identity, expression, and so on.

1: https://www.adolescenthealth.org/Meetings/Past-Meetings/2017...