It looks, in fact, like you're using HN primarily for ideological battle, and that's what we ban accounts for (https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&qu...), so please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and use HN as intended.
This comes across as a caricature of a serious issue.
For what it is worth, whether I agree or disagree with you (or anyone), I strive not to mischaracterize your concerns.
I would like to ask a favor. Please read [1] and come back here afterward. Try rephrasing your comment. I hope you are capable of making a good faith attempt at understanding sex (at birth), gender identity, expression, and so on.
1: https://www.adolescenthealth.org/Meetings/Past-Meetings/2017...