https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23468960.
> She wandered a bit with me until she identified someone who I think she thought was sufficiently non-threatening (middle-aged woman hanging out with family) and Lily asked me if I would be willing to ask on her behalf.
is it really sexism (subtle or otherwise) for the author to give his best guess as to the state of mind of his daughter at the time? or are we passing judgment on the possible motivations of a six-year-old girl?
Perhaps because sexism in this instance is completely acceptable? I'm not objecting to that, by the way.
Can't imagine how to navigate this these days, but maybe there's a layer between.